SO I LIKE THIS GUY AND I HAVE LIKED HIM SINCE THE 5TH GRADE HIS GIRLFRIEND IS MY BEST FRIEND AND I REALLY HAVE THESE DEEP FEELINGS FOR HIM I HAVE ALWAYS HAD. I JUST NEVER TOLD HIM. A PART OF ME WANTS TO TELL HIM BUT THEN AGAIN HIS GIRL IS MY FRIEND. I AM TRAPPED AND DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.
2006-10-23 07:17:30 · 14 answers · asked by Christina T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell him. It will jeopordize the relationship you have with your friend. If it's not worth it, then continue to keep your crush a secret. Not much you can do if the guy is already taken and there's no point in expressing your feelings to someone that you can't have.
2006-10-23 07:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide whats more important your friendship or the feelings you have for this guy. Also if you did tell him and he didn't feel the same way you just lost him and your friend. If you know somehow he does feel the same way and you can't and don't want to move on then maybe the friendship might be worth ending. It really just depends on whats more important to you. If you can betray your friend in that way then she was never truely a thought of friend. Maybe you should just move on especially if they are happy together. There are more fish in the sea besides your supposed best friends man
2006-10-23 14:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep quiet about it. Making your feelings known at this point will do nothing but destroy relationships.... Wait it out. Relationships at this age normally don't last that long. When they break up without your intereference, you can be there as a friend to both and see what develops. If it's meant to be, it will work out...
2006-10-23 14:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to have feelings for. trust me no matter how strongs your feelings are for him its not worth ruining your relationship with your friend. plus if you were to date this guy, how would you like it if an other one of your friends told him she liked him??? you would be pissed. well thats how ur best friend will feel. guys come and go. There's plenty of guys out there so just find an other one.
2006-10-23 14:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's more important? Your Friendship with the girl? Or the possible "Future" Or "Fling" With the Boy? Who have you known longer?
What type of values do you have? Would you want it to happen to you?
Ask yourself these questions and make the choice on your own.
2006-10-23 14:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon you'll be in seventh grade and you may not see this guy again. So just move on to the boy in Geometry.
2006-10-23 14:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jason D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you now? I think since he's already involved, you should just leave him alone, or else you might lose your friend. Just let it go and see what happens.
2006-10-23 14:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off yo girlfriends baby daddy son!!
that ain't right.
2006-10-23 14:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you cannot hide what you feel if your friend is truly your friend she will understand that you cant help feeling what you feel its not your fault but you should tell him. you cant hide from your feelings no matter how hard you try.
2006-10-23 14:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's taken. Unless u think he has feelings for u, i'd definately back off. She's your best friend!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 14:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by salut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋