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ok, i know this cute guy and he has tryed to kiss me but i am afraid..what do i do? how do i start? how long should it be?

2006-10-23 07:15:39 · 20 answers · asked by bashful_girl07 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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it should be as long or as short as you want. start slowly, with your lips half pursed, then go it, touch his lips, open your lips slightly to get his top of bottom lip a little, then press, and if you are feeling up to it, open your mouth a bit, and use your tongue to go a little bit into his mouth, at least to touch his lips, and if he opens his lips then touch his touch. just GO WITH IT. trust me, once you get started, you WILL KNOW WHAT TO DO. TRUST ME!!!!!! you'll be surprised at how EASY it comes once you start.

2006-10-23 07:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0 0

What you do is, don't kiss him just to kiss him. Wait until you really feel it, the urge to kiss him, the welling up of feelings for him. Then you close your eyes, gently press your pursed lips against his, making sure to tilt your head so your noses don't hit, and hold them there. The longer you stay there, the more he'll be able to feel what you're feeling for him-- I used to make the mistake of pulling away really fast because I was nervous and my beloved taught me to stay there longer so he could feel it. That's what gets you and him weak around the knees. Make sure to breathe through your nose! Several breaths is usually long enough to get the point across.

don't kiss him before YOU'RE ready-- my first boyfriend was really fast, and there were dozens upon dozens of meaningless kisses that just made me ill.

If you're feeling sexy, try sucking on his bottom lip a little. Don't worry about tongue just yet-- your first kiss shold NOT be tongue, nor the second and so on. Tongue is something you have to work up to.

2006-10-23 14:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by techwiz2000_2000 2 · 0 0

Wow this is alost an impossibe question to answer typing.... just be soft not rough and dont go in too deep and dont wiggle your tonge in his mouth... just rub your tounge on his very slowly and keep ending it with a smooth kiss by kissing his bottom lip or top lip only then go in for more lol i cant believe im doing this hahaha good luck... you should tease him and lay down and say... " if you were to kiss me how would you do it?" just make him make the move.

2006-10-23 14:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by young meat:) 2 · 0 0

Having fresh breath is always a good thing, don't chew gum because if you kiss him, it might wind up in his mouth.lol. Just go for it when he wants too, its really instinct but which ever way he tilts his head, you tilt yours the opposite way so your lips lock. Make sure your lips aren't dry, but not too wet. Use your tongue, we like that. Also bite down on his bottom lip gently, it does something to us. I can be as long as you want it to be, because without you, he's got nobody to kiss.

2006-10-23 14:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Taco Bomber Baby 2 · 0 0

where do you live? lol practise on a mirror or with a doll. Let him kiss you, but watch the tongue.
If everyone in the world lived by the golden rule(treat people the way you would like to be treated)(do unto others as you would like done to yourself) what a great world this would be.

2006-10-23 14:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

There is no right or wrong way. When you go to kiss you will either feel comfortable or not. He is probably feeling the same anxiety as you and wants it to be perfect. You will find you way together.

Good Luck :o)

2006-10-23 14:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by Treat Infamy 4 · 0 0

Just moisten the lips a little, pucker up and press, its easy, sooner or later someone will try to put their tongue in your motu, just stick yours back, and have fun

2006-10-23 15:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by John S 2 · 0 0

u have never been kissed before? well i don't think no one can teach you that over internet. Ask him to teach you, he should understand.

2006-10-23 14:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Toki 1 · 0 0

you kind of gotta learn it yourself..its nothing really to be taught....ok here go and watch cruel intentions and that should try to help you out a lil bit on teaching you....

2006-10-23 14:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by tucsongirl85730 1 · 0 0

If you don't know how to do a basic human function such as kiss, you're going to have a really hard time in life

2006-10-23 14:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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