There are things of my past that I think about. They haven't been on my mind until recently. I wonder if this should be a time to tell my boyfriend before it may cause a problem later when he has no idea what's wrong with me, because believe me, the last thing I want to do is hurt him, when he has been there for me as of late, when no one else can.
2006-10-23 07:13:37 · 9 answers · asked by girl_is_depeche 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe in being honest with someone. If you really trust him and you think he can accept when your goning to tell him i would say go for it! Secrets in a relationship never help. If you dont trust him enough then wait a while.
2006-10-23 07:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by the girlfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be better off leaving certain things in the past... things he doesn't need to know about unless he directly asks you. If they are bad things, it may hurt your relationship.
2006-10-23 07:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mike Oxlong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe it will effect your relationship you should discuss then discuss the things in your past that are on your mind
2006-10-23 07:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that the past is the past. You need to look ahead of you not behind you. If you look behind, you might not see something perfect right in front of you until it's behind you.
2006-10-23 07:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by doughboy09bravo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mode, do you feel this will affect your relationship with him? Why do you feel he will think something is wrong with you? And are you sure that you absolutely need to tell him?
2006-10-24 09:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is something serious that he should know that may affect your relationship..then yes. But little things I wouldnt bother.
2006-10-23 07:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by BellaRia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what the past hold and what the situation is.
2006-10-23 07:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only tell him very gradually, and a little bit at a time, to see how he handles it.
2006-10-23 07:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by ~Khanokh~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really trust him than go for it.
2006-10-23 07:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by sxylilcracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋