ok so me and my ex broke up on saturday, and then my best friends sleeps with him that night. she said it was accident, but the next day she goes to the mall with him. what the heck? im hurt bc we dated for 2.5 years and then for him to do that. Im hurt but im over him, but what do i do about my friends?
2006-10-23 07:09:52 · 41 answers · asked by Amanda W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends DO NOT do that to each other. She should have respected the law about friends not dating or sleeping with friends ex's. I wouldn't trust her again. If she does it once, she can do it again.
2006-10-23 07:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this happend to me. Me and my bf had been going out for over a year and we broke up and he had sex with my best friend. I'm still with mine, we've been going out for 4 1/2 years now, and its better than ever. He said he only did it to me because he found out i cheated on him so he got me back. Honestly, if you guys were broken up, you cant do much about it because you guys WERENT together. Thats good that you're over him, but about the whole friends thing, dont be friends with her, she is obviously a slut who doesnt care about your feelings or else she wouldnt have done that in the first place. Find some friends you can trust and you know that they wont stab you in the back. Good luck.
2006-10-23 07:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friend or friends? Sounds like they always has some sort of attraction going on to hop in the sack right away like that. There's no accident involved there, just a disregard for your feelings. Make new friends.
2006-10-23 07:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First stop calling her your friend. 2nd your just gonna have to move on. I hate when people say "i didn't mean to sleep with them, it was an accident". Your clothes don't just accidentally fall off and accidentally the two of them are on top of each other. Its gonna be hard but your gonna have to move on. Shes not your friend and she should know better than to do that to you if she really cared. Just tell yourself that karma will take care of everything in the end.
2006-10-23 07:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by tays232003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so my friend only messed around with this kid for a year or so and they were never actually boyfriend and girlfriend, she's married with a baby and its been about 3 years since they messed around and i still called her to ask her approval before i went to mess around with him. That's a good friend. How do you know she wasnt the real reason why you guys broke up in the 1st place.....
2006-10-23 07:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by young meat:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She backstabbed you and did it the night you broke up with him. She didn't give you the courtesy of asking your permission. It's a good thing you and your ex broke up because he sounds like a dog. You're better off without either of them. I would find a new best friend.
2006-10-23 07:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not consider her my friend anymore. A friend, especially a best friend, would never consider sleeping with her best friend's ex-boyfriend. I think you need to forgive them because you don't want that anger and hurt building up inside of you but you also need to cut them both out of your life completely. Good Luck!
2006-10-23 07:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who broke up with whom? Did your boyfriend break up with you because he wanted to be with her? Convenient. Did you break up with him? Well, if you did then it must have been for some pretty good reasons. If that's the case then let your friend have him. Your old problems with him are now hers. Sweet revenge!
Either way, move on. Be a little more choosey about who you let into your heart because with just those 2 it doesn't seem like your making good decisions on who you let into your life. Good luck. P.s. It's up to you to decide whether you want to forgive your friend. How important is that relationship to you? Remember, if she can do it once...it's very possible she can do it again.
2006-10-23 07:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that you broke up with him. A real friend considers your feelings enough to know that something like that would hurt you and not do it...."Accidents" like that don't happen if someone is a true friend of yours.
2006-10-23 07:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They aren't your friends, if they were they wouldn't have slept with your very new ex boyfriend. Makes you wonder if it has happened before though. I wouldn't give the "friends" a second thought. Go find new ones that will respect you.
With friends like this who needs enemies???
2006-10-23 07:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋