my boyfriend says he loves me but i dont know if he likes another girl because ssome other girl because he is always with her but he says he doesnt like her should i beleive him????
2006-10-23 06:47:18 · 50 answers · asked by valerie v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think so. Does he have a history of cheating? If he does I would be a little suspicious, but if he doesn't than I would give him a break, and just let him know that it bothers you that he hangs out with this other girl so much. Whatever you decide to do , Good Luck!
2006-10-23 06:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by IrishGuy85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is he with this other girl all the time? Is it for a legitimate reason like they are study partners, coworkers. Tell him you hear him saying he loves you but you wonder about this other girl. It's a mixed message he's sending you. Saying you love someone is meaningless unless backed up by action. Love is more than what you say, it's what you do! If you don't get any satisfaction out of this guy, that is he stops spending so much time with girl 2, then it's find another boyfriend time.
2006-10-23 06:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by inquiringmind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what little information you provided, I would say no. If a guy truly loves you, he'll be with you all the time. Follow you around and do lots of little things for you. Put your foot down and don't accept a part-time boyfriend. Full-time or nothing. Or you're gonna wind up like Hillary Clinton - sharing your husband with half the women in America and a few in Canada. Makes you look like a doormat. Not good.
2006-10-23 06:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is a guy and i love him to death, but not like a boyfriend. Try doing things all 3 of you be cool about it and tell him to invite her with him therefore you can see the kind of person that she is without making a big mistake. Dont jump into conclussions a good detective always, always goes over his clues several time before making any conclussions.
Good Luck
2006-10-23 06:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this other girl is just a close friend. If he often stays out over nights with her and stuff like that then no but if its just like having a drink with her every now and again just chill out a bit. Its ok for men to have female friends. Would you be so suspicious if it were a male friend? Just check things out before you do anything, you might lose a man who loves you if your wrong.
2006-10-23 06:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Pink_kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear you are too young and gulible to believe that I LOVE YOU scheme. Those threee little words are often told many women young and old that just so they can get into your pants.
I would think you wouldn't want to tie down yourself with a boyfriend that is most likely immature and doesn't know the mean of the three words I LOVE YOU truly.
Don't ruin your life. Kick him to the curb and do something with your life.
2006-10-23 06:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by Karissa Anne L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly not. He is obviously friends with her, and opposite sex friendships are really a true sign of love. I mean, if you're best friends or can even get along honestly with eachother and have fun, isn't that the definition of love? Let him go and watch him stick to her like glue. Its not a bad thing, you should be happy for them to have found their perfect mate, and hope for the same yourself. If you do this, you will be respected and you will find yourself surrounded by people who look up to you.
2006-10-23 06:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he is with you for some kind of gain or you are holding on to him. Since he is supposed to be with you I don't see any reason why he should spend most of his waking hours with whoever that other girl is. I know it is going to be hard but I say get rid of the loser. One day at a time and you'll forget about him
2006-10-23 06:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with that, his just being cute with saying he loves you more. Like my boyfriend does it all the time to me, and I think it's the same.. xD
2016-03-28 05:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because his actions are contradicting what he's telling you. My boyfriend tells me he loves me several times a day through texting me to calling me to visiting me on a daily basis. Therefore I know he loves me! If a man doesn't spend time with you and doesn't romance you but tells you he loves you, he's only doing 1 thing-------and that holding you back to keep you from having someone else. Tell him that he's got it twisted, then kick his a*s to the curb!
2006-10-23 06:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋