Me and this boy lk eachother but dont want to go out. He wants me to come over to his house and supposly wach a movie, but i know what he really wants! i asked my friend if she would come with me so nothing would happen should i bring my friend with me or should i just go by myself????????
2006-10-23 06:43:41 · 13 answers · asked by Sabrina B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do not trust this guy, then it is best not to go. It is a bit obvious what he wants.Now I could be wrong.If he had good intentions, then he would have made it more comfortable for you by having his parents around or mentioning that you could bring a friend along.Theaters are aplenty after all.
2006-10-23 07:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by stewart j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already started liking each other then by now you porbably know his type.
The guy could be trying to be just romantic and having a nice peaceful time together.
Even if he has no bad intentions he may not be happy about your idea of bringing your girlfriend. It is a definate NO NO.
On the other hand he could be trying to be frisky. If this be the case either don't go or make it clear by saying "No Toucing" (with a smile) if he tries to act funny just leave.
This way you will be sure of his intentions.
Even suggesting to take in your girlfriend could offend him whatever be your intentions Also you will never know.
If you however you are really scared want to be on the safer side ask you girlfriend to give you a call in between (just to keep checking if its ok).
You are the best judge of his character so you have to decide.
2006-10-23 07:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by guy_darj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know this is what the guy wants? If you know this is what he ONLY wants then you shouldnt even be considering going to his house, with or without your friend. If two people like each other, then they usually want to go out. This guy is probably just going to use you, so respect yourself, DONT GO OVER THERE, and find a guy who likes you for you.
2006-10-23 06:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are very young, ask him if his parents will be there. If not, tell him no. Or invite him to your house when your parents will be there. If you are older, suggest that you go to a movie theater and see a movie. Taking a friend with you is not a good idea.
2006-10-23 06:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, be big about the situation... If you are under 18, then your grown a** don't need to be going over his house anyway, especially with this type of stuff on the both of yall's minds.... But if you are over 18yo, then be adult about it and let him know what time it is... Either you are with it or you are not... you already know if you are gonna let him hit it or not... Stop acting stupid...!
2006-10-23 06:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Dani_n_keem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think something will happen you are not ready for, then yes ask your friend but tell the guy before hand, if he likes you he won't mind, if he is upset, then you are right, he only wants something else and you probably should consider another guy.
2006-10-23 06:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by John H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are scared something is going to happen that you don't want to happen then yes take your friend,,,otherwise go by yourself,,,and who knows you might really have some fun
2006-10-23 06:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring a friend and suggest he bring a friend or other couple make it a group or double date thing.
2006-10-23 06:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's hott and you really like him then go.... but if you know what's gonna happen and don't want it to.. my advice would be to take your friend or simply not go!
2006-10-23 06:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem...You can go to his place, but first tell him that a movie is a movie...And if it comes a moment related to sex, stop him...If he makes pressures on you, leave him...Speak first to him, tell him what sex means to you...Comunication is everything...
2006-10-23 06:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by ota marmota 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋