myself and this guy i already meet in perseon are the same age 30 years old. I was the one who told him that i loved him first and then just last saturday he told me I love you sweetheart. The next thing he asked me to borrow him money like 300.00 dollars and his best friend just told me that he wouldn't use money for rent that he would use it for drugs like meth i don't what i should do help or leave him.
2006-10-23 06:39:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I totally agree with all of you.
2006-10-23 06:56:57 · update #1
You don't know what to do? You're 30 years old and you think a relationship with a man that has to borrow money is a good thing? He's 30! It doesn't matter what he's gonna use it for...he shouldn't have to borrow money!
That's a huge red flag! Get out while you can and for God's sake, DON'T LEND HIM THE MONEY!!!!!
2006-10-23 06:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think that you should go for it! Anyone who is thinking about leaving their current under any kind of circumstance, is obviously wondering what else is out there because they're not happy. So do what's best for you, find out how this other guy feels, and go for it! ALSO, if the other guy isn't down for a relationship just yet, break up with your current anyway and be single for a while. It will be good for you! :)
2016-05-22 01:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap! RUN!!! If his best friend is telling you that he is no good, then take the advice of those that know him best and get out of that relationship while the getting is good and DON'T GIVE HIM ANY MONEY!!! You give him even $10 and he will forever be asking you for money--NOT a good way to start a relationship.
2006-10-23 06:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by hopestar23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT DAWDLE!!!!!! DO NOT WALK, RUN LIKE HELL while you still have a life & a bank account. He is playing you by telling you he loves you. He wants your money & knows he can get it by telling you this, because it has probably worked for him in the past.
Keep your self-respect!!! You are NOT helping him by giving him money & ONLY "he" can help himself by asking for it..... He will ONLY drag you down with him!!!!!!
2006-10-23 07:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that is what he will be using the money for then that is the only reason he told you he loved you...To use you to get money....I'd get away from him and soon
2006-10-23 06:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave
Oh and Leave Fast
2006-10-23 06:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your first mistake telling this loser :i love you" and how many times do i need to say this people when they start asking to barrow money that is when your red warning light should start flashing it is such a big big turn off when they ask to barrow money am i the only one who feels this way?? don't give him a dime he is a LOSER LOSER !!!!!
2006-10-23 06:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him, try to find out from him why does he need those money...tell him to be honest...If you love him, you have to wish him best, so if he is on drugs, help him ;)...
2006-10-23 06:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by ota marmota 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You better run away with your money off this guy.
Move on.
2006-10-23 06:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep your money and tell himto try public programs because they have them for things like that.
2006-10-23 06:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by Step 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋