So I've just recently met this guy. He is SUPER sweet and a really great guy.. he just isn't my type really. He smokes, he's not the usual clean cut type, no real life goals.. but he treats me real well...
I am pretty sure sometime real soon he is going to ask me to be his girlfriend.. I think he would be a great boyfriend, but I just don't want one right now. I am enjoying my single life. I like hooking up with this other guy I've been seeing for a few months now.
I don't want to lose this new guy cause I can see potential.
What do I do?!?! SHould I just stop being selfish and just go with the new guy?
2006-10-23 06:38:10 · 7 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not my type, but I can see beyond that.. there is something special about him.
2006-10-23 06:42:40 · update #1
Be honest and tell him that you would like to be friends.
2006-10-23 06:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a lucky girl. Well, I would say measure them up, see which one you see yourself with. Some guy your hooking up with might not be boyfriend material, but if you don't want a boyfriend that might be perfect... But at the same time, this new guy might be something special, but someone without life goals isn't that inspiring. Look at what you really want, and what is holding you back from having it.
2006-10-23 13:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be feeling guilty at the idea of enjoying the company of two different guys, and you are now considering the option of being the girlfriend of the new guy because it would be "normal" and "appropriate".
Perhaps you could think about it from the guys point of view:-
Would he want you to enter into a relationship holding misgivings and only being involved with him because he asked you to?
In my opinion you should be honest with yourself and with him.
If you are under 25 and your own feeling is you don't want to be in a permanent relationship then that should be enough to decide the matter.
2006-10-23 14:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can spend more time with him as a friend till u get comfirtable with him. if u think u r nt ready to take decision wait and then decide what to do.
2006-10-23 13:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by slimshady3in 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not just your type don't go out with him.
2006-10-23 13:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not accept a boyfriend if your not ready. It wouldnt be fair to either of you.
2006-10-23 13:41:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want your children to have lung cancer?
2006-10-23 13:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋