my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years only has female friends. I have yet to meet these friends. They never call our home, only his cell phone. I don't think he wants me to meet these friends but he wants me to trust in the fact that he wouldn't do anything with them. I still find myself being jealous. I need anwers on how to solve this jealousy issue. Will meeting these friends and interacting with them help? What do you think?
2006-10-23 06:35:15 · 9 answers · asked by teritjh62 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
what on earth does this have to do with diet and fitness?
2006-10-23 06:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually, this is a good sign. It means that a guy has some understanding and maturity about the difference between men and women, leading to a more stable relationship.
It is puzzling when you say "I don't think he wants me to meet these friends..." Strange that you would know somebody for 1 1/2 years without knowing what his friends are like. Also strange that after 1 1/2 years, you aren't able to ask this question.
If you are jealous, it is because you are living with someone (you mention 'our home') without knowing them as well as you should. This may be difficult - the unwritten rule between the two of you is already that this part of his life is "off limits" to you.
If he opens up this circle of friends to you, all should be well, and you will have 'caught up' with what you should know. Be gentle: his personality may be different with this group of people than with you - this is normal. As an aside, both of you should know all of your friends and family.
2006-10-23 07:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Polymath 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband of almost 4 years was concerned with this very fact of me only having guy friends. I told him he had nothing to worry about but he just couldn't accept that. It took me a very long time to allow him to meet my friends as well. After I allowed my husband to meet my (guy) friends he was totally cool with it. If you do trust him then you have nothing to worry about, but if it is in fact that you don't trust him then you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him. If he still insists that you have nothing to worry about but still doesn't let you meet them then I would say that you have problems with him. Although he's been with you for a 1 and 1/2 years so I would say he is completely satisfied with you but maybe he just like to have a separate friends circle. It's not that big of a deal, if you can trust him like I said. I hope this will help out a little. Good Luck
2006-10-23 06:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by x_xbaybeex_x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose your boyfriend nonetheless loves you however may be setting up a tremendous overwhelm in this lady and does now not know the way to manage it seeing that you're now not round and he or she is. She certainly wishes him, in any other case she might now not spend as so much time with him or ask him the ones questions now not might she avert assembly you! It feels like your boyfriend already is aware of there's anything there and has been telling you those matters subconsciously due to the fact that he feels responsible of it and wishes you to understand approximately it. They say that after anybody is dishonest the begin hinting and citing that man or woman in dialog. I'm now not pronouncing he is cheated however it is undoubtedly anything to hold in brain. He feels like he's mindful and seeking to allow you to in on it. I might utterly avert being mad and jealous due to the fact that as a way to force you aside and her towards him! Tell him you recognize she wishes him and ask him what he thinks approximately it. If he says dont fear i utterly love then you definately say its good enough and do not care due to the fact that you recognize what you will have with him is truly and also you believe him. if he flips out a Denys it then ask him what he is so protective approximately if there may be not anything to cover? You'll recognise in which to move from there relying on his answere. Good success and transfer on speedily of it does not figure out.. It's the one method to reside your existence!
2016-09-01 01:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, your not going to like this. He;s either gay, or he's with a lot of them. there is not good outlook for the question you asked. You have never met a single one of them for a year and a half!! Come on, how long are you really going to live in denial. Or you may be the first woman he''s been with and he was gay prior to being with you
2006-10-23 06:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by shane t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is not Jealous... So you should not be Jealous if you really love him, trust him to the fact the he trusts you also. You should trust each other if you love each other.... If you found him guilty of that trust, then dump him. But put your trust on him, because you know him very well I think, and you know that you love each other. So why be jealous, he is yours and you are his. ;)
2006-10-23 06:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jehzeel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bunch of female friends is better than ONE SINGLE GUY frend.
2006-10-23 06:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by novembr 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
boyfriend is simply that If you have questions about his faithfullness find someone you are completly happy with not someone you worry day in day out what and who they are doing :)
2006-10-23 06:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jeppa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get to know his friends.
2006-10-23 06:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋