I am a freshman [[i no probably too young to be asking]] and i am good friends with alot of juniors and senior bc they are more mature than guys my age. I here that one of the seniors is going to ask me out and we have beenn close friends for a while but everybody says that he just wants to have sex bc he is a senior. but are all seniors like that?? the same with a junior that wants to go out with me. Please help!
2006-10-23 06:10:14 · 20 answers · asked by luvin_them_boys02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you I would not generalize the guys based on Juniors/Seniors. You have to figure it out on a guy to guy basis. Not all Juniors or Seniors will want into your pants, but some will.
Your best option is to ask around and see if they have a rep about seeing peeps, sleepin' with them and then dumping them right afterwards. Those are the ones to avoid...
2006-10-23 06:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say. Men are men or should I say boys will be boys and most of them want s_x and a lot of it. Doesn't matter what grade or how old. S_x is sex therefore get it while you can, soon you will be old and wished you had when you were younger. Now's the time, just don't have babies till your at least 28! and do not catch anything, STD's, if they can't do it safe then they don't need to do it at all! Live life that is what it is for, to enjoy and have fun and the s_x you have now will only give you experience for later, don't talk about it with anyone and be careful of the boys that will talk about you, stay clear of them! Also learn from the dates you go on and learn all you can about men this will only help later when you get older and think of a man to marry! In this matter you will be able to know what you like and what you don't and just what kind of men are out there, all kinds, becareful, a lot of crazy's too! So choose wisely and learn all that you can. S_x is part of life just be smart about it!
Are you ready to give that part of your life away once you do it will never come back - if you are ready then you are ready and no one else is going to tell you any different but if you are not ready you can still date them, besides no one says you have to have s_x on the first date and you'd better not! Hold out till about the fifth date if he waits that long then s_x is not the main issue on his mind.
You don't want a bad reputation not this young, so if you are having s_x be sure it is with a steady. Some older guys think it is a joke to get the girl that has never been had just so they can say they were the one and spread the news, don't let this be you. Also some just do it to see if they can, some do it b/c they have something to get off and they don't care who they do it with, some are dogs and don't care where they burry their bone, so be careful life can be fun but it can also be crule, Be glad for the times you had and be greatful when it is over! Good luck and e-mail me anytime if you want. Be smart don't grow up too young!
2006-10-23 06:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a generalization, everyone is different and has their own motives. Senior and juniors might see the freshmen as easy prey because they think they're naive, but not everyone is like that. Trust me, I've already been through high school, I know this. Just make sure that you respect yourself as a young female and you'll be alright. Cheers...
2006-10-23 06:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by fabulous diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All guys period not just Juniors and Seniors. Boys under 25 still cant think straight and it is all about sex.
2006-10-23 06:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men do want sex: that's life. but he could just like you as well, if you've been friends for a while. while you're young at least you are responsible enough to recognise the situation you're in. just take it slow. he won't ask for sex on the first date, they try to be more subtle than that (young guys often wait a month before they start dropping hints). if you like him you can go out with him - just stay smart. and don't forget, it's illegal for both of you until you hit 18 - he could go to jail for statutory rape.
2006-10-23 06:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by jimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So hes on no account even made touch with you? i think of that could recommend he's not attempting to get into your pants if hes on no account quite achieved something besides stared at you. you may make touch to get into someones pants! Lol! perchance he thinks your quite extraordinarily and hes in simple terms thank you to shy or fearful to get the nerve to speak to you. yet i may be slightly creeped if he did no longer quickly, if hes continually staring that way. Stalker Alert! :p
2016-10-16 07:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look gurl i am a junior and take it from me not all juniors and seniors want to have sex. maybe the people who telling you this stuff are just jealous of you. how old are you? maybe that has something to do with why people are talking like that.
2006-10-23 06:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not everybody is like that. guys can be like that at any age! . You have to be smart and not let your emotions get in the way or else your reputation might be ruined for sleeping with a guy who only wanted you for your body.
2006-10-23 06:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not all seniors are like that im a senior and dont think like that maby your friends are just hatin but i have a girl and have been with her for a while and im a senior and stay commited so no not all of them are like that
2006-10-23 06:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by bhitta122389 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL boys/men from now on will want to get into your pants.
EVERY time you meet a guy one of the first things he will be asking himself is "how can I get her into bed"?
you need to decide if that person will be allowed in you pants or not.
Sorry.. but thats the way it will be from now on.
2006-10-23 06:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋