my ex is not a very jealous man and i want to make him jealous to make him want to come back but i am not sure how. he has a gf right now and i need to know how to get past her to get to him.
2006-10-23 06:03:00 · 24 answers · asked by Christa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop focusing on him and focus on yourself and your life. If you make your life better without him he will see you differently. He will see a girl who is independent of him and who has this wonderful life that keeps improving without him. Then perhaps he will see what he is truly missing out on.
2006-10-23 06:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an ex GF at work and you want to start dating someone else who also works there? Doesn't seem like a wise decision. Can you meet ladies elsewhere? Ever heard "Don't mix business with pleasure"...there's a reason behind the saying. Not so sure that seeing you with another woman will make your ex come racing back into your arms. Try figuring out why you broke up and really work to show her you can eliminate the problems you had.
2016-03-28 05:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That don't make sense look you don't make someone you want back jealous especially if they have a girlfriend already. I suggest you move on and when they break up see if there is a chance for the two of you. Other than that you are more than likely wasting your time and emotions.
2006-10-23 06:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw his current gf. That way, he gets jealous yet turned on at the same time. *sarcasm*
Hes your ex for a reason. You cant 'make' someone jealous who isnt that way to begin with. Obviously, he doesnt want you anymore since he has a new gf. Let it go.
2006-10-23 06:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, MOVE ON, dear! An ex won't be jealous anymore because he is your EX. You'll just make fun of yourself if you try to win him back. I suggest, get back your life so that he will see what a loser he is for letting go of a gem---and that is YOU!
2006-10-23 06:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have exactly the same problem!
i have split up with a bloke and met up with my first serious boyf from school after not being in contact for several years. and my god now i remember why i liked him! but of course he has a gf too. What can i do!! i dont want to hurt anyone and i wouldnt make him be unfaithful, i want him to come to me!! to be honest when we met up he was all but all over me. and kept saying really nice things. surely thats not the actions of a devoted bf!!
2006-10-23 06:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by star82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doing that puts you on such a low level, that you would not be worth coming back to. Anyone who would try to use jealousy to regain a past gf or bf is really clutching at straws and even if you succeed, the odds are the one you get back won;t stay long.
instead go on with your life, date others who interest you and don't give trying to get him back a second thought. you and he will both be way better off for it.
remember the old saying ' if you love it, let it go; if it loves you it will return' and do not confuse jealousy, bribery or other things with love.
2006-10-23 06:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be obsessed with this guy...not a good place to be. Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you anyway?
If you are a savvy and attractive person (and I assume you are) you'll move on instead of trying to lure this guy back, getting married and then finding yourself asking for the name of a good divorce attorney in a few years.
Good luck!
2006-10-23 06:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think ur should leave it alone. he's obviously moved on so why don't u. find a new man. maybe someone who will treat u right n make u happy. it just makes u look desperate feining over how to get someone back. let him come back to u. if it was meant to be...he will.
2006-10-23 06:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by playboyprincess6904 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why?? I'm sure he's an ex for a reason.. and two ..Thats a pretty immature game to play.
Just go find a new boyfriend..
2006-10-23 06:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋