ok well i meet him through my step sister and he seems to be a lovin person he has already bought me things gave me things and has told me he loves me,but one problem his ex-girlfriend ..she says that he did the same for her ...he says he didn't ... could it be that she just wants him back..?or could he be lyin?
2006-10-23 06:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by adriane c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry to say this. men dont chang over night. if you want it to work out then go for it. but im just giving you a fair chance, if she says he did the same thing for her he probably did
2006-10-23 06:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by nik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he may have done the same things for her, but that really doesn't matter right now. What matters is how he is treating you and you should not lose focus of that. Jealousy can tear a relationship apart before it even begins. The best thing for you to do, is not talk to the ex-girlfriend anymore and to not compare yourself to his previous relationships. All relationships are different. For what ever reason they lost interest in eachother, may not be the same reason you two may break up from, you never know... you may be the one. Nonone ever knows how long a relationship will last, but all relationships either make it or break it for a reason.
Good luck.
2006-10-23 06:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all don't rush into anything. Take your time and see how it comes around. If he is still treating you well after about nine months then he is in for the long haul. Don't believe what the ex is saying, but also take what he is saying with a grain of salt.
2006-10-23 06:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter? Just because he buys you things and is nice to you that is just the tip of a relationship iceberg. He may do you like he did his ex. If he got with you while they were dating then he will for sure. Otherewise dont worry about anyone else his ex your ex your step sister none of them matter as far as your relationship with him is concerned.
2006-10-23 06:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly i don't see what the problem is either way. Even if he did do all the same things for her it really shouldn't matter becuz you have him now not her. Maybe if he is lying to you he is trying to make you feel specia. You really shouldn't be worried bout it honey as long as you know he is yours and not back stepping to her don't let what she says bother you
2006-10-23 06:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to watch his behavior. did he cheat on his girlfriend for you or did you catch him on a rebound. how long was he single before he told you he loved you? it's alot to factor in. because if he cheated on his ex for you, nine times out of ten, he do it to you only worse, it is called KARMA. and what do you mean his ex said he did it for her? why are you talking to her for? she might be jealous, she might not, but you and her should have nothing to talk about. pretty soon she will use whatever you say aganist you and tell him,and she'll as be claiming that shes still "working your mans pole"; if she already anit. sorry sweetie, but never give another woman room to tell you nothin about what is supposed to be yours.
2006-10-23 06:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by DECADENCE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the best judge. Situations described entails you to take a wise decision.It is a very tricky situation. His ex may be wanting him back.
2006-10-23 06:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if he is doing the same things he did with her then he might not be completely over her yet and that is your que to move on out of there.
2006-10-23 06:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by kitcatt143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has her own reasons why he left her or y they broke up.... each persons relationship differs from each others... yrs may not take a path where u will become his ex gf.... its just tht shes trying to warn u against something.. lissen to her upto an extent... then its r heart tht has to decide.... U LOVE HIM tite??
2006-10-23 06:09:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... seeing how the ex's name is the same as yours...
and the face is the same..
and you..have..the..same... parents...
then yeah.
there's a high chance.
you know what you should do?
hook up with me!
I just hope Jessica Alba won't get jealous. again.
2006-10-23 06:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by Disturbed-Individual 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋