I have always been dumped to being to nice and loving. Is that a bad thing?
2006-10-23 06:01:13 · 31 answers · asked by losman762003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am only speaking for myself and maybe alot of women out there. I don't like a man that is "too nice" I look for someone with a great personality who is caring, sweet and affectionate but that does not over do it. I want someone who can be very funny and who can just be himself. I like a man who is relaxed and calm and not always in my face. So maybe you need to just relax and don't be overly nice and loving.
2006-10-23 06:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by mandylj21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be coming accross as being in need of their approval or that you cannot stand up to bullies. By nature, women tend to want a guy who is confident, smart and strong enough to take care of themselves and be happy on their own. Don't let women wrap you around their finger and they'll respect and trust you more. Being nice is great, just don't gush all the time or act like you live for them as if you have no life of your own. It's a fine art, just keep trying... you'll find the right balance, and the right woman.
2006-10-23 13:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by kim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a bad thing, most girls want a nice and loving man. But some women don't like that, they a man that is rough and mean, you just have to find the right woman that will appreciate your niceness and loving heart.
2006-10-23 13:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never wrong to be nice or caring/loving. There is someone who will love you for being that way. Keep trying. The ones that you have seen before are not the ones for you. When it happens, it will be great. Be the best person that you can and never stop trying. Your wife will love you for it. I know, that is why I love my husband; not because he is good looking or smart or a great provider. He is not rich or famous. But, he is a really great guy. I respect him and love the way he loves me.
2006-10-23 13:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Bibi B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only a bad thing for immature women. Another factor can be that when a woman hasn't always been treated well, she may not know how to react when a man is good to her. But the smart ones will know a good thing when they see it.
2006-10-23 13:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by francesfarmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DEPENDS ARE YOU SWEET AND LOVING BUT NOT VERY GOOD LOOKING? GUYS I AM GOING TO GIVE YOU A BIT OF ADVICE AND I DONT CARE WHAT ANY OF YOU WOMEN THINK OUT THERE BECAUSE YOU KNOW IT IS TRUE!! GUY IF YOU ARE UGLY YOU WOULD HAVE A BETTER CHANCE WITH GIRLS IF YOU ACT LIKE YOU ARE FINE!! AND FOR THE CUTE GUYS YOU CAN BE AS SWEET AS YOU WANT TO BE!!
2006-10-23 13:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, too nice and caring is not always nice. Not all girls appreciate it and in fact, some got irritated unless you are cute and fun going. Stay cool instead..
2006-10-23 13:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by les_miserables 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately many girls like being treated like crap because that is the opinion they have of themseves. Be more selective and pick girls who are smart and have interests more than sex and dating.
As one girl said, many girls are attracted to tough guys who are self confident and are visually virle. Sad they don't realize that brains and caution have made men vastly more survivable than any of the animals.
2006-10-23 13:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not a bad thing. and yes there are caring women left you just havent found her yet.
2006-10-23 13:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by kirstin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,and i agree in both ways.i have always been rejected for beeing nice person. it really starts to weigh on you after awhile.
my theory is that peple never look at the people they should.
2006-10-23 13:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋