I have noticed lately that guys will flock to the 'needy girl'. The girls who are depressed and are always down.
Why is this? Is it a 'she's in need of rescue' thing?
2006-10-23 06:01:02 · 12 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to remember that guys are as insecure as women are. Usually with the needy girl they will tell the men that they are needed and that is a huge turn-on for men. To feel needed/wanted is a great feeling and that is usually what they hear from the "needy girl".
2006-10-23 06:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always noticed that guys tend to avoid the needy type.
2006-10-23 13:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with this. I find that most people want to be with a confident, NON-needy person. Needy people scare others away!
2006-10-23 13:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will "rescue" women.
Women will "change" men.
Its what they do.
The real problem is:
While you can "rescue" someone, unless the change they will fall victum to what it was that caused them to need to be "rescued". Add to this you can not "change" anyone. If someone is going to "change" they have to do it because they want to do it for themselves.
This is why "rescue" and "change" relationships always fail.
2006-10-23 13:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my g/f kinda like that, but i didnt know that till after we had been together for awhile - i'm with her cause i love her not cause im trying rescue her - but its get tiring having her get all upset/or cry over stuff i just wanna say "shut up! deal with it and stop complaining!"......is that wrong
2006-10-23 13:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the 'peppy & perky' girls myself ... "Eyes that sparkle" are a good thing too ...
2006-10-23 13:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by blueyedimpledguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he feels like a big man
2006-10-23 13:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man when i see them I run. way too much work with no reward. look again.
2006-10-23 13:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by hogie0101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy mark
2006-10-23 13:03:01 · answer #9 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST AN OLD FASHION THING THAT i DON'T EVEN THINK MOST GUYS REALIZE THAT THEY DO.
2006-10-23 13:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by looking1964 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋