2006-10-23 05:48:26 · 28 answers · asked by riswan_effendi 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I have 2 daughters and 1 son . My girls are 13 and 3 ,my son is 9. I worry about my son more than the girls because of the stigma that boys are tougher and he has to prove even at his age that he is tough. He has already got into fights becaus his dad teaches him not to put up with anything. I know that is the wrong thing to teach that is why I try to be the calming force in the family. I don't want my son to grow up to be the bully nor do i want him to be bullied. It is up to parents to raise good kids to become good adults. If you see something mentally wrong with your kids ,do something about it , don't just say" they will grow out of it" those may just be the kids who rape, murder,and kidnap. We as parents need to step up and stop letting everybody else tell us how to raise our kids. When I was younger we didn't worry about being raped or kidnapped. It is the Government and society that has made kids grow up to be bad adults. Remember, spare the rod and spoil the child. it worked. But now we have to look over our shoulder because BIG BROTHER might be looking and the child welfare may take our kids away because we are ABUSING them. WE are trying to raise our kids in a shitty society that needs to mind its own business.That is my rant for the year.Hope you all enjoyed and maybe some of you agree.My kids do not have playstation or any other gaming system, they do not watch T.v all the time, just 2 hrs a day they do not get on the internet unless I am sitting beside them watching what they do. WE spend family time together and they play outside. My kids hate being in the house. Parents be parents not friends. Our kids have friends.Be the kind of parents you wish you had not the parents you had. You know who you are.
2006-10-23 06:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I worry about all four of my children the same.. Maybe that will change when I have teenagers, I don't know.. But as of now, my two daughters are 8 &5 and my two sons are 2 and 8 months and I worry about them all the same!
2006-10-23 05:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
some may, but i have 2 daughters and a son and i worry about them the same.
2006-10-23 07:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by supermomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you become a parent and have a boy and a girl, you will get it. I try to remind myself that I have to be fair to my kids, but it is so hard when it comes to my daughter. I really don't know the answer, I always said to myself that I was not going to do it to my daughter, not like my parents did. And here I am, more protective of my little girl than I am my boy.
Yes, girls can get raped easier, and guys can fight back, but I have made sure that my daughter knows how to fight back, and I have no doubts that she can, yet I am still more protective of her.
2006-10-23 05:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by nanners040477 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't have a daughter, but I have a 3 year old boy and another on the way in Jan. I will protect my sons as I would a daughter. Boys get raped and hurt too. You need to protect your kids. No matter what sex they are.
2006-10-23 06:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a daughter and I don't think it's fair to her to treat her more delicate then a boy. I am going to raise my daughter to be able to take care of herself and make sure that I wouldn't have to treat her any different then if I had a boy. I do worry about her though but I just think that's a mom thing.
2006-10-23 06:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by shele9806 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on the age.
If it's when they're small, I think it's just based on a pre-conceived notion that girls are "weaker" than boys. For small children, all of them need to be worried and cared for the same amount.
As they get older, though, two things happen. First, girls develop into something that statistics will prove put them at more of a risk for kidnap or attack, or sexual abuse. At this same time, boys are growing to the point where they can (generally) physically defend themselves easier than girls. If you train the girl in self-defense, this is, of course, not the issue.
Because of the smaller stature girls generally have, they can be more easily attacked, hurt, raped, whatever.
2006-10-23 06:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because thier daughter can get pregnant at a very young age and the grandparents are stuck raising them.But if a guy gets the girl pregnant then he wont have to worry cause her mom and dad will take care of it.Plus alot of girls are more stupid on what they do with thier life than guys are and parents know this.
2006-10-23 05:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by alicia m 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nicely, i assume that some Iranian ladies a minimum of could be allowed to have boyfriends, otherwise the place might the lads get the girlfriends from? talking by way of fact the mum of three sons, i think of I hardship in simple terms as lots approximately them while they're out as i might some daughter.
2016-10-16 07:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a EASY question. Women are more volnerable than men in many situation. More women are raped, more women are abused, and most women are generally weaker than men physically. Women in general are emotional beings and are softer than men. I have 2 daughters and 1 son. I do worry more about my daughters than my son because he is their protector as well as my husband and I.
2006-10-23 06:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by mizzladyariel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋