I am 31 and he is obviously 21.
2006-10-23 05:34:37 · 20 answers · asked by animegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The fact you ask shows reservation on your part.... you ALREADY know the answer.
2006-10-23 05:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you guys want to be together, the only thing I am afraid of is that you may be at an emotionally/mentally different place than he is right now. Arent you such a very different person than you were at 21 now that you are 31? Take this matter into careful consideration first. Don't set yourself up for a potential heartbreak if you dont need to. Hope this helped.
Maggie
2006-10-23 05:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like ou are more concerned about peoples reactions to the age difference than the age gap itself.
Personally i see nothing wrong with any age difference as long as both parties are consenting adults (which you are). If somebody makes you happy then that is all that matters. Rise above other peoples opinions and recognize that any negativity toward your relationship probably comes from a traditional attitude and a lack of understanding.
2006-10-23 05:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by tarri 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Do you love him? If yes, then no, that is not a bad thing. If you feel safe and whole, then your free to be with him. Don't let anyone tell you different. My sister is 31 and dating a guy who is 54. But they are happy. He also is divorced and has 3 boys.
2006-10-23 05:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by goddessheartbreaker 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If the 2 of you are ok with the age difference then what we think doesn't matter, just have fun! It's not that big of an age difference anyway.
2006-10-23 05:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's all what you have in common, I think people put too much emphasis on age, and don't try to think of how times change.....This isn't the 1950s anymore!
2006-10-23 05:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's good. You can spend the next 30 years raising him just the way you want.
2006-10-23 05:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as both of you don't have a problem with the age gap then it should'nt matter if its good or bad!
2006-10-23 05:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by syrrens_angel 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My husband is 5 years older then me,but my previose boyfriend i was 5 years older then him...so no it doesn't matter..what matters is how you feel about him and he feels about you...so don't let it bother you..ok.
2006-10-23 05:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by Boo_Learner 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How do you feel about it? Is it good or bad, only you can answer that. If it feels right then what could be bad?
2006-10-23 05:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by hangychha 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋