I know this guy. He is very cute, sweet, smart, and an awesome guy, but. . . he is too shy.Just yesterday, he shook my hand, he held it tightly and quickly let go and turned his face when he realized I was lokking at him. This morning, I told him that I wanted to take a picture with him, and he just kept going around in circles with his words, and then he went off to work and didn't have time for the pictures.He has an email, I got it (he didn't give it to me, but I got it) and he said he doesn't want me to have it,because I don't know he's shy.He also claims he doesn't like girls, but I'm sure he does.He is so shy that when our eyes meet, he keeps on staring and looking at my eyes with such an admiration look, and then quickly changes the subject.I don't know if I like him or not, because he ignores me for a couple of days, and then talks again, it's like a cycle.Any suggestions on what I should do, on whether or not I should like him,whether he likes me or not.Please, no mean answers
2006-10-23 05:26:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i think that you should not be so "insistent" with this guy. you've made your moves and now it's time to give him space to think whether he would pursue you or not. if you keep "stalking" him, you will scare him and it just sends a bad notion that you're soooo into him. maybe he's shy, but with the things you did, he should have responded to your come-ons.
so i suggest that you just let him be. don't figure him out. don't think that he likes you so you won't be disappointed. for all you know you're just having illusions that he likes you. i mean, you can never tell what a guy thinks, right? so if i were you, quit insisting yourself. get busy and show him that you've lots of interesting things to do (which might actually start him to get interested with you). if a guy really wants you, he will do anything so that he will get your attention and not make up excuses.
move on, girl! there are lots of fish in the ocean!
2006-10-23 05:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there, he may really not like girls. My best friend R.J. told me that he was gay, and I didn't believe him, I started hitting on him and really liking him, until I really saw him checking out another guy! Then it really hit me. I think you need to ask him up front and see what he says, maybe he is shy, but maybe the shyness is just really scared. Find out about his past, find if there is any emotional distraught or any conflict, then piece it together with the possibilities, then confide in an answer and make your final move.
2006-10-23 12:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by goddessheartbreaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I would like to say that getting someone's email without their permission or knowledge really isn't a way to win them over. As far as your question goes - I don't think it really matters if he likes you or not... you should probably move on. If he doesn't like you - then he doesn't... and you can find someone else who does. And if he does like you - well, would you want to be with someone who likes you but treats you in such a way? I don't think you would. So find someone who likes you and isn't afraid to show it.
2006-10-23 12:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of silly to be chasing after a guy who doesn't want you to have his email, says he doesn't like girls, and ignores you. How many more hints does need need to give you before you'll understand: he's just not that into you. Leave him alone.
2006-10-23 12:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is shy and you should take charge and get him over his shyness. Email him and let loose on him to open him up.
2006-10-23 12:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just let this one go. I really don't think it's worth all the effort.
2006-10-23 12:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a thought, but did you ever think he might be gay?
2006-10-23 12:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should find out what his sexual gender is?
2006-10-23 12:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by RACHAEL R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's gay
2006-10-23 12:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋