My would-be 5 year anniversary with my ex boyfriend is November 3rd. We are still very close and best friends, although I do have a new boyfriend. My exboyfriend made dinner reservations to celebrate our friendship/relationship, but do you think my new boyfriend would be mad?
2006-10-23 05:12:32 · 19 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, I think that would be something that shouldn't be happening anymore if you have a new man and your old relationship is over. You don't normally celebrate a friendship anniversary. And if it is the other type of anniversary you are celebrating then the message of what you are celebrating is scewed.
2006-10-23 05:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by vancie121 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going 2 go out with someone who you're not supposed 2 be going out with anymore? No way, if my gf pulled that crap, I wouldn't be happy. Anyhow, what are you celebrating? An anniversary of a relationship that doesn't exist anymore?
Buuuuuut, if you absolutely want 2 go 'celebrate' this non-event with your ex, maybe think about asking your current bf 2 come along. Even if he doesn't (which he probably won't want 2 anyhow) that might put him more at ease with your plans.
2006-10-23 12:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by forex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your boyfriend made dinner reservations to celebrate a relationship with his old girlfriend. To me, it sounds like a date. Maybe your boyfriend will have a date for the night you're out with your former flame.- fair is fair, right?
2006-10-23 12:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is rediculous. He's your ex boyfriend,, why are you still celebrating an anniversary for? Let it go already. If your boyfriend has sack, he'd tell you h-ell no.
Looks like the responses are all in agreement, lol.
2006-10-23 12:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about what you're asking..................................
Put your new boyfriend in your shoes---------------how would YOU feel if your new boyfriend told you that he will be having an "anniversary dinner" w/his EX-girlfriend........As a real woman, I would be saying "what the hell is this?" OR "this is a joke right?"...........If you value your new relationship, why keep your old relationship out there?.....Move on w/your life & tell your ex to cancel the reservation & for him to move on as well-------no need to have the attitude with it though-------just be cordial with him...
Peace*******************
2006-10-23 12:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by LuvlyOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u sure he is totally ur EX? u may still have some unresolved feelings for him,if u know any better,u shouldn't be asking a question that will be answered yes by every male starting from kindergarden to 80.
2006-10-23 12:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by senoradelafelicidad 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask yourself, if the situation were turned around and it were your current boyfriend going out with his x girlfriend would you be mad? then you will have your answer. Or another way to find out, ask your boyfriend. I think you already know the answer or you would have discussed it with your current beau. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-23 12:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be suprised if he was supportive of you going to dinner with your ex. I think you are flirting with trouble if you truly want to keep you new bf.
2006-10-23 12:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anne A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his shoes if he did the same thing that you are doing would you be mad. Maybe you can have your new bf come along.
2006-10-23 12:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes but if you 2 have a good understanding and good trust then you may be able to go out with your him with out him freaking outjust be sure to confirm the information with him and let him know forehand what the deal is
2006-10-23 12:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by ALWAYSDAOTHABITCH 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋