i think m goin crazy..cz of my moms death... i cant take it anymore...i feel lonely n depressed...what i shoul i do?Do i deserve to live? whats gonna happen to me?
2006-10-23 04:54:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you need to surround yourself with loving family members that understand what you have been through , and I recomend seeing some type of grief counsler , the feelings you ae experiencing are perfecty normal, yes you do deserve to live, make evryday the best you can and make youe life a sucess , thats what any mother would want , I dont know your late mother but i bet she would want you to move on and better your life ......sorry for your loss ...good luck
2006-10-23 05:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry.Of course you deserve to live!!Life throws us hard things to deal with sometimes.I found my 49 year old brother dead.I "tuned out:" for about 3years at least.Its been almost 5 years since he's been gone.Its hard,,I know.One day,,I told my other brother,,I dont know where Iv been but I feel like I just got back.You just need to greive.Hold her in your heart forever.She wants you to be happy.Keep yourself busy,,pamper yourself,,find real friends that will listen when you speak to them.Other people that have gone thru this will understand the best.You'll be ok,,it just takes time to get thru.Try not to dwell on the thoughts but try to think more possitive & upbeat.I used to have to make myself get up,,showered etc.Its just that I was in such a state of shock.Have your quiet time & hold your memories close to your heart but push yourself to move forward & do things that interest you,,keep busy.Good Luck.I care.
2006-10-23 12:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ..iam sam livin in india i am a doctor by profession..I struggled with my mom fighting cancer(ovarian) till the end...She was all i worked for..I lost her in jan last year...It felt like my life is over ..i no more looked forward to anything...But gradually with time i have picked up some targets in life and also doing lot of extra curricular stuff..TIME is a great healer..My prayers are with u!GOD bless!
2006-10-23 13:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by jhimpuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry to hear that...even though i dont know u...i feel your pain...
i feel you should go for therapy ... it really does help..dont be afraid to try it...it doesnt mean theres something wrong with u..it just means u need to figure some stuff out and they're professionals..they do help..!
YES u deserve to live. im going to pray that everything u want comes to u and u're always happy.
i hope u can find happiness again,
xoxo
2006-10-23 11:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by sacred_90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel this way, try to find help. u and ur life are important, and u deserve to live!!! never forget that. i hope u can find happiness again, just don't give up.
2006-10-23 12:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋