My man and i just decided to "start over" after a huge fight. i am having a hard time. we have been together almost 2 years and we were engaged before we started over. we decided i should still wear the ring but it wouldnt mean anything until he asked me again. so i guess my question is how do i act. is it ok to say i love him. or new relationship is only a day old. do i wait for him to say i love you again. has anyone eles done this? what is the best way to start over? please help i never want to lose my man. oh and one more question, what about my wedding planning do i stop?
2006-10-23 04:37:59 · 6 answers · asked by adnama_n_werd 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
press the restart button?
Lolz.....jkjk...
serious now.....
did the guy start the fight with you or you start first?
if it was the guy, ii am sorry but to say that maybe that guy
don't want to be with you again.. and there is no hope over
such matter......sorry....
If it was you who started the fight, you might need to say sorry
to him....because he will be thinkin that it is not his fault....
maybe after you say sorry to him, he might have a thought over
and restart your relationship......
Good luck....all de best.....
better restart it.....(ii mean the relationship, not your computer...)
ii hope ii help....^^
2006-10-23 04:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Vengence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tells you to wait until he asks. then you should cancel your wedding plans... It might never happen and it could be costly....
First things first.....
You do not sit around and wait with baited breath for him to call the shots...
You make up your own mind, how you want to approach this.
Give the ring back and tell him you will ask for it when you are ready..
You need to take some control of this situations or you have already lost the battle.
Be yourself and " no walking on egg shells".. It takes two people to break-up and two to make it work.
Do not be a pawn in this games of chess, take your rightful roll as the queen and act like it...
2006-10-23 04:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you an d him need to get the ground rules down for this whole starting over thing. If not, then it sounds like both of you will be confused as what to do.
2006-10-23 04:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either let the person come to you, or start of slow by sending him or her thig that they like.
2006-10-23 04:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by parisnikkivager 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll need to get a hymen repair kit from www.amazon.com. That's the only way to really restart.
2006-10-23 04:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Dialup, Avatar, Jones!? 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
put everything behind you my dear... pray and ask God for wisdom. sometimes only he can help.
2006-10-23 04:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by Effiel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋