I came home from work to find her lying on top of my surf matt..is she fooling around on me...should i call our wedding off? when i talk to her...she just stares back at me and gives me the cold shoulder. WHAT SHOULD I DO...im crying as i type this.
2006-10-23 04:24:32 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL no i wouldn't call of the wedding. Do you know how many men want a woman who won't talk back!!!! Count yourself lucky
2006-10-23 04:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by R C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you've got to pull yourself together. Don't make decisions when you're experiencing emotion problems... er, I mean stress.
If she won't talk then confront your surf matt. Sit on him if necessary - he may admit something while under pressure. And, pay close attention, he might just leak something important. But be careful and don't apply too much pressure or he may just blow up and go to pieces. The last thing you need is to listen to the ramblings of a former surf matt who no longer has it together. Again, look for clues; see what's really inside of him, he could just be full of hot air - or maybe your doll was attracted by his inflated ego. Try and say things to deflate his ego as well. But at some point, you're going to have to approach your doll. The answers lay with her.
How do you feel about her? Is she just some doll who's a real air-head who's plastic all the time? Is she easy to see through? How does she react under pressure? Maybe she's just getting cold feet. When she just stares at you, get her attention, stick a pin in her if necessary to get her to let it out. Maybe it's just bad air between you two.
Maybe she's pregnant with those accompanying mood changes. Does she sometimes just blow up at nothing? Can you tell has she started to swell up any? I'll bet that would just bust surf matt's bubble...Something else, she could have gas, many times that causes a lack of conversation. Try releasing her plug a little while pressing on her tummy....Finally, she may just have a certain air about her that makes her difficult to understand. Afterall, you didn't really start a relationship with her for good conversation, huh?
I suggest holding off on the wedding until you understand her better. Keep an eye on her, don't let her just wither away, and pump her up with compliments if necessary; but don't blow smoke up her plug. Heck sometimes a hot water bottle is all that's needed for a cold shoulder anyway. Good luck, I hope ya'll can reinflate your relationship before she comes apart at the seams.
2006-10-23 05:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by stretch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww... I'm so sorry to hear about this. But yes, it does sound like she may be fooling around on you. And if shes not willing to communicate to get it out in the open, then shes not worth your time. You need to face it, shes just not into you anymore. I know this can be hard but, you can get through this. Just remember there are many more blow up ladies out there. In fact I seen a couple real lonely ones Saturday night. I think you should kick her cold *** out of the house and go shopping for a new one. Hell yeah! Go get your self a new piece of plastic a s s! :)
2006-10-23 04:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you know that besides the Jessica Rabbits and other unreal females out there we real ones exist to, can you meet them is the question? we are more able to give love than blow up sheep/ porn stars/ or whatever other little thing you have lurking in your wardrobe. Why don't you join a dating agency? i suggest an intellegent one.
2006-10-23 04:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not call the wedding off, u two were made for each other. Two air heads.
2006-10-23 04:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I reconmend on you doing is getting some therapy and then going to buy a life at wal-mart and then just avoid saying stupid things like this as much as possible, though it looks as though it might be hard for you...good luck.
2006-10-23 04:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by kendra dowson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a pin and let her know how it is, if she doesn't stop humping your stuff then your going to have to do something about it. I tihnk she is a real airhead for doing that to you and its full of hot air as well.
You should tell her it is. Put your foot down!
2006-10-23 04:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, give her some time alone to sort things out. I think you should have a talk with the air pump though. Good luck!
2006-10-23 04:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wedding must go on! Look at it this way, she won't loose her looks, gripe at you all the time, tell you to put the toilet seat down, or tell you it's time to shave. As long as her mouth stays open and she doesn't deflate you should be fine. CONGRATS!!!!
2006-10-23 04:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by Adri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some pre-marriage counseling to get over these feelings of mistrust and deception. You certainly don't want thing exploding on your wedding night
2006-10-23 04:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋