I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and I'm completely confused. At first we were having great sex and in the beginning I know he was dating other women. But now that we're seeing each other exclusively the sex has chilled out tremendously. The other night he spent the night with me and when I asked why he didn't want to have sex with me he told me that sex doesn't move him. I don't want to seem insecure by asking him why he doesn't seem to be in the mood to have sex with me anymore but should I ask. Any suggestions on how to handle this situation.
2006-10-23 04:21:22 · 7 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea do exactly that thing you said you didnt want to do! Ask him whats up. Sex is a big part of relationships and if you do not handle the hard stuff to communicate about in the beginning there is almost no way you will be able to do it in the end because you will always feel a little bit of insecurity. If he hits you up with that lame excuse for not answering your question that goes a little somehting like:"It that all that matters to you is sex? I though our relationship was about more than that!" then just say it is about more than that but I feel like I am no longer physically attractive to you and that hurts me. Make him answer okay dont back down! there is a reason, get it out of him. Good luck
2006-10-23 04:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by ask me again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, and most guys, the more sex we get, the more we want. If I am having sex twice a day, then three times a day is okay, but if I bump down to once a week, going down to every other week isn't so bad. There are limits to both extreems, and every guy has different limits. But as a general rule, the more I get, the more I want. Also, the more I get, the "better" I am... ie, I last longer, am more passionate, more involved, concerned more with my partner's desires, etc. The only time I was multi-orgasmic had have been when I was having sex every day.
2006-10-23 11:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell ya sweetheart, but he's over it. Bored. Likes you enough not to hurt your feelings by saying it, or just doesn't know how to say it, but the passion is gone. He's only happy when he's free, and now he feels trapped, and is beginning to resent you for it. Either surprise him by inviting your best girlfriend or twin sister over for a little "sharing", or else let him go and move on...
...oh, and if you find yourself lonely and horny, call me.
2006-10-23 11:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by Stuntcock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lose the sexual pleasure with you.
I guess too much is harmful mentally.. You have to make some changes to yourself.
He is more interested in fresh food now...
Take care!
2006-10-23 11:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by Eddy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's the type who thrives on variety...spice it up, wear a wig or act the part of another woman with a accent....play around with it!
2006-10-23 11:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch... ditch this guy... apparently he doesn't love you and was just liking having sex with a new girl. sounds like a player.
2006-10-23 11:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should play hard to get a little ... and spice up your sex life
2006-10-23 11:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by df d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋