ok me and this guy have been best friends for 2 years and we started dating a few months ago, well for reasons me and him broke up and my best friend started talking to him, (which i thought was kinda horrible) well anyway they didnt work out and 2 days ago i told her i still loved him and wanted to try to work things out with him. me and him are still best friends and he knows how i feel. but she told me she loves him t o and know i dont know what to do. should i tell her i dont want them together or what??? help please?
2006-10-23 03:39:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well 4 1 if u were u with him in spite of her feelings 4 him. In Other words were u trying to beat her 2 the pie. If So then you're getting what you deserve because you reap what you sew it's called bad Karma. But if you were in love with him first and she came and stepped in on your territory then you should tell her to back off. Because first of all she has broken some of the laws of friendship. Like the one about not dating other friends boyfriends/girlfriends. But really all you can do is follow your instincts.
2006-10-23 03:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy Caramel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you and your best friend have a lot in common and share similar lifestyles, it is entirely possible that both of you would be attracted to the same kind of person. It is, however, not only the height of bad taste, but a serious betrayal, for your friend to display a romantic interest in someone she knows you are involved with.
2006-10-23 03:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really funny how best friends fall for the same guy, and not uncommon. Best friends will have so much in common that they do that. My best friend and I had a deal that if we both fell for the same guy, then neither of us would go for him. No guy is worth the friendship, and there are plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-10-23 03:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide which of you is thinking long term. Also decide wether you love him or your best friend more, maybe she'll do the same, I think you should talk to her about it and try to work things out, be very gentle and tell her your feelings , good luck
2006-10-23 03:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she aint ya best friend, then again how old are u, but a best friend would NOT date your ex. and he should not have dated her either because he shoueld have some kind of respect for you. But like i said How old are you, this sounds pretty immature but if you are of age then leave the both of them alone and move on, HELL have a threesome first lol
2006-10-23 03:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by mizz_toree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day its what he wants but i know i wouldnt call her my best friend.....best friends dont even go there with ex's well not in mine an my friends books anyway
2006-10-23 03:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally he will make a choice. So start now working towards yourself getting chosen by this guy. Your friend has already started. Again realise early if you are going to win or not. It happens in life.
2006-10-23 03:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by infinitum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she started dating him after you then she is NOT A FRIEND. You need to get over them both and find you real friends with respect for you and your feelings as well as respect for themselves!!!!
2006-10-23 03:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you decide who he loves, let the 'jilted' male decide who he loves and rather be with. When water goes over Niagara Falls, Mother Nature doesn't say, "Oops, you went over too fast, go back and flow over again,eh?".
2006-10-23 03:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by fran t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear these kinda things alot....but friendship is more important......i think that you should talk to ur guy friend and talk it out and then have ur best friend and guy friend talk it out. and see what happens then. or all you guys can talk out ur feelings and see where you guys are at.
2006-10-23 03:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by blueangel182006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋