But a nice guy. And very very good looking. This isn't about me, I swear .... and no funny remarks no needed about that, coz there are obvious cheap shots there. Just curious!
2006-10-23 03:28:50 · 46 answers · asked by Morph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends how bad he was, if he was selfish in bed then yeah, but if he just needed a helping hand then no.
2006-10-23 03:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie, learn to COMMUNICATE. The reason he is cr*p in be could be because you are cr*p at communicating! This is not a cheap shot. it's meant in all sincerity. Most people like to be guided. Also, do you show any passion or just lie there waiting? That would put me off totally. Learn to interact on all levels.
2006-10-23 03:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sabi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, if he sucks, you can teach him all the skills you think you have. If he doesn't improve, then I'd move on to the next. When you love someone, all the "real intimacy" comes later anyway. It's probably a good sign meaning he hasn't had that many partners to 'practice' with...could be a keeper? To some, sex is ALL that matters, it is important, but not everything. Love is all.
2006-10-23 03:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life isn't about just sex. He is a nice guy, and he looks good. Their are not many nice guys left so she who ever she is needs to keep him. The next one she runs into may be an *** hole, but good in bed. Is she that shallow to exchange emotinal feelings over sexual feelings. Work with him, their are books out their dvds etc... She knows how she want to feel in bed so she need to show him what she want. It takes two.
2006-10-23 03:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have stayed with guys that were not the best choices for me just becuz the sex was soo hot. I think I would try to talk to him about it first. Not say hey you suck, you need to do this first, then this, then this....More like ya know I really like it when you do this, and if you did more of that after, then I would totally be panting for you. It is all in the way you approach it. But after talking & trying to guide him, if it is still all about him getting his, then yea, I would dump him...
2006-10-23 03:34:42 · answer #5 · answered by cflmn71 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't dump a guy because of this. I would try my best to help him get better at it before giving up on him. Some guys just need a little help where that is concerned.
2006-10-23 03:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well
If he is soo nice I will not dump him right away! I would give him achance to improve on himself! If he can't I will keep him and get satisfied else where until I find a nicer, cuter, good guy in bed! Then dump him!
Sexs very very important!
SANAM
2006-10-23 03:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry dear, that's very important to have a future with someone, you need to enjoy the intimacy, so yes dump someone you wont have a sexual connection with, that's the difference between friends and boyfriends, the sex right?
2006-10-23 03:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mommyof3 BGB 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he were my guy I would look at it as a chance to mold him into what I want in bed. Tell him what all the right things to do and the right spots are.
2006-10-23 03:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Bob S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, i would just show him some new positions that we could try together....no one is CRAAp in bed, it's just the person hasn't been shown exactly what to do..... a good teacher can make a very happy student!
good luck and god bless
2006-10-23 03:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋