My sister is having a baby and she is 16 and my mother dont know, what should i do.?

Answer 1

Get your mom calm and tell her. Your sister needs all the help she can get right now.

Answer 2

Try talking to your sister about the situation. Maybe she needs extra support to be brave enough to talk to your mother. If that doesn't work, try talking to your mom without actually telling her what is going on. Maybe you can tell her that you think that your sister has some things going on that she could use a mother's guidance with but that you don't think she'll come out and ask for help. Maybe your mom will go to her and make her feel comfortable talking to her. In the end, you must remember that you can't do anything to help if those involved don't want your help. You may end up having to sit on the sidelines and hope for the best.

Answer 3

The best thing is to sit down with your mother and sister and spill the beans! 16 Years old, very young for a girl to make a realistic decision over pregnancy! If you are older than her, be a rock for her. but your mother needs to know. The longer you wait, the more stress both of you are going to have. There's a lot of stuff that needs to happen and it cost money, tell her now, so that your mother can plan for the coming of the child. Good Luck.

Answer 4

Sit down and have a talk with your sister. Tell her your mom needs to know, and she needs to see a doctor to make sure the baby is okay. Offer to go with her to tell your mom, or to tell her yourself so she doesn't have to do it alone. If you can't talk her into telling your mom, then your mom will figure it out sooner or later. At least help her find a way to get medical care for that baby.

Answer 5

First, Go to God in prayer and ask for his wisdom. Then Go to your sister and ask her to tell your mother. If she refuses, you have to tell your mom. These next few days, weeks and months will be more difficult without the support of experienced adults. Also, don't give your sister the opportunity to make decisions that will affect the rest of her life, alone. There are SO many serious choices to be made; keep the baby, give the baby to another loving couple for adoption, and unfortunately abortion.( which for the record I'm strongly against.) When I was young I got pregnant and told my sisters and not my parents. You know why I did that? Because I knew that they would do the right thing and tell them. I just couldn't bear to do it myself! I was scared to death of how they would react! I will definitely keep you in my prayers!

Answer 6

Your sister should tell your mom and anyway because she is going to find out eventually about the baby. Tell your sister don't be afraid of telling your mom, because, in the long run she will be there by your sister's side to help her and her baby.

Answer 7

Talk to your sister. Is there a legitmiate reason she is not telling your mom. If she feels that she can trust her she needs to tell your mother. Also tell her to sign up for WIK and government aid if she plans on keeping the baby.

Answer 8

It will become obvious sooner than late. Grab your chicken sh#t sister and put her in front of mom and get the ball rolling. And if you're the older sister, be prepared for at least half the blame. I don't know why but that's how it works.

Answer 9

The only thing you can do is to convince your sister to tell her Mom. You shouldn't tell, it's NOT your place to. But she does need to know so that your sister can get the proper medical care and such. Good Luck Auntie!

Answer 10

tell her!
your sister nad baby need medical attention for a healthy outcome.
She is going to find out sooner or later.

Answer 11

you have to get her to tell her mother i am 17 and i am also having a baby i told my dad and now every thing is looking for best! its the best to do! she can only get a positive or negitive result! and better now then her mom finding out dont go and tell her mom thats what she must do! and believe me her mom will find out, remember she has been through pregnency before to, she will she it!