This is the six month since we started our relationship. But this lady is too demanding. Everytime we meet or she calls, she just ask for money. She just like please but me this......... buy me that.........
She has just sent me a tex in my mobile phone "I dont love her because I dont take the responsibility"
I have stopped giving her money since September.I really dont like this sort of relationship. THAT IS EXCHANGING LOVE FOR MONEY!
I just ask my self, this is just a very beginning step in our relationship!, how about when we get married?? what if a guy with more money that I have comes? Does she really love me ??
Please advise me, what further step should I take to deal with this. I really love her, but her habits makes me really uncomrotable and feel like she is using me as an ATM.
Please advice me!! Please
2006-10-23 03:00:00 · 17 answers · asked by imma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is she your pimp? Cos thats how shes treating you, pull urself together and tell her to dig that gold elsewhere...
2006-10-23 03:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being used for money and toys you buy for her. I say dump her and find someone who cares about you, loves you and spends time with you. While you may truly love her, open your eyes and see what is happening. All she wants is the paper you have in your wallet, but don't want the important stuff like your love, attention, touch or being close. All her focus is on money, money money.
Anyone who puts money and gifts ahead of more romantic things, is only out for money.
I say, dump, dump, dump and let her find another sugar daddy to drain and make miserable.
2006-10-23 03:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right track buddy. No, she doesn't love you, she loves your money. And yes, if another guy comes along with more money, yea she would more than likely leave. I know that this is hard because you do love her, but break it off and find someone that loves you for you and not for your money. I am sure that there are plenty of women out there that would love to go out with someone who has money, but make sure she loves you for you. Lose the ATM card girlfriend and find someone else.
2006-10-23 03:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by redheadedmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered breaking up with her? If she just wants your money and she acts like you're doing something wrong by not forking it out, (I may be jumping the gun here) I would tell her to hit the road. Let her know that if she wants money in exchange for her loving, there's a profession for that. The only problem is that its illegal almost everywhere.
2006-10-23 03:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by mrtoddanson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do guys think that if they are in a relationship... sex should just be given because of love? Well bad news we have bills! You can't just relay on love you have to help your partner! If her bill are too demanding maybe you just do make enough to help her. Now I can understand your situation and you have to tell her I can only give you a certain amount weekly or monthly.
2006-10-23 03:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Cowgirl Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Dump her right now! Relationship for money is another name for a word begining with P.
2006-10-23 03:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by MARS1951 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her she is just using you for money. She probably has other men lined up to she uses for money also. It's a look into the future. If she is like this as your girlfriend imagine what she would be like as a wife.
2006-10-23 03:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH, She is using you as an ATM and she will find someone else who has more money, it's just a matter of time. I would never allow any girl to do that to me. Ever!! Don't give her any money and don't buy her anything. If she stays then she really likes you or she thinks she can eventually get you to give her money again. Don't give her any money anymore!!
2006-10-23 03:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes your money. I dont know either of you but if you feel fishie about it then your probably right. I would say "Hey look if you dont forget about this crap and focus on me your gonna get the boot!" Please I dont know how many poor boyfriends I had that I loved but it had nothing to do with money.
2006-10-23 03:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by KittyKattsMeow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If money is the only reason she ever calls you then you should break it off. From what you described it sounds like she only wants your money.
2006-10-23 03:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is.....
Is she an escort or a girlfriend...???
If she is always asking for money, I would begin to wonder if this was an M.O. and you might not be the only guy giving her money.
I prefer the conventional girl... not an escort wannabee.
2006-10-23 03:05:12 · answer #11 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋