I am friends with the most wonderful guy in the world, all my girly friends agree, however we aren't purely friends, we'v been intimate intermittently. We're now flat mates & it's become quite a regular event, but he's now met someone & I've realised that I may be in love, so HELP!!!
2006-10-23 00:56:16 · 17 answers · asked by Bubbly Blonde 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you will meet someone too, don't worry.
2006-10-23 01:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Zuoi bu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u two started being f**k buddies u both knew that it was going to be a no strings attached relationship! U should tell him how u feel cause he might feel the same way. If he feels the same way he could just be embarrassed to say something because he may feel that all u want to do is F**k. He he just likes u as a f**k friend then maybe his new girl will have threesomes with u and him! If not then u have to find i new f**k friend!
2006-10-23 01:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Book_Worm #1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with fire, your going to get burned. Now you only have a few choices. 1. Tell him how you feel, give him the choice of one on one, or none. 2. Find a new guy for yourself and see if he gets jealous. 3. Stop messing with him and let things go. Friends with benefits seldom works out. The longer you carry this on the more emotionally involved you become. Now that your flat mates it makes the situation even worse. Time to make a change, its up to you.
2006-10-23 01:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls always get hurt in these situations and yet they keep pursuing them, to their own detriment. Think back to when this all started with this most wonderful guy-friend. That is is the risk you took when you agreed to the intermittent f##-buddy arrangement. Any conflict here is clearly self-inflicted, because when you play with fire, you are bound to get burned. As far as the new lover, you have to let him go, because the agreement was "no-strings attached sex." Remember?
2006-10-23 01:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful here. You could not only lose a lover but a friend. Let him know that you having these feelings. Just do it in an unthreatening way and without falling into a heap of tears. And dont be bitchy to the new girl!
2006-10-23 01:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by bonfireheat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A hump buddy is a hump buddy... Nothing more. But if you fell for the guy and fell hard, here's what you should do. Get that rope called "Your feelins" and tie it into lassoe and ring that boy into your hoop of "love" and see what happens. If you tamed that stallion, you've nailed you're self steed to ride on. If not, he'll kick buck you off. Think carefully on this one. Good luck girl!
2006-10-23 01:06:25 · answer #6 · answered by Joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's so unfair on him...I know that's not what you want to hear, but when you got involved with "no" commitment, you kind of make a promise to keep it that way.
You should probably tell him, but if he wanted to be with you that way, would he really be going out with other people?
Now you're roommates, how's that going to work out? So many questions...has he ever indicated that he wanted more from you? It might be better to keep it to yourself and stay away from f}uck buddies in the future...
2006-10-23 01:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by jeshzisd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. He may be feeling the same way, but seeing someone else to see what you will do or say about it. Or he could just be a pig and want his cake and eat it too.
2006-10-23 00:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself is it love or jealously? If love tell him, if he is not interested, get out now not later. Just asking for more hurt. And in the future, look before you leap. Otherwise you will just set yourself for more hurt and maybe serious problems, like unwanted children or diseases.
2006-10-23 01:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by Cars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving somebody bodily could enhance emotions nevertheless doesnt quite translate emotionally. quite some the time its complicated to be bodily in touch with somebody with out being emotional.
2016-10-16 07:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by mathison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't so generous with your favors, perhaps you had stood a chance, but I'm afraid if he's met someone else he's just not that into you.
2006-10-23 01:13:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋