i am in to relation from last six years and i am physical as well guy every time tells me he loves me and will get maried after his sis marriage but at same time he ask for indipendence in relation to flirt with others as he fell happy and refresh in to this yesterday i caught him flirting on net and had dispute on this kindly suggest my reaction was right or not wethera he realy loves me or not shal i proceed further in this relation or stop myself
2006-10-23 00:50:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he loved u from his heart....he would not need to flirt with other women...
it sounds like he needs to grow up alot...
However, there comes a time when men need to recharge their batteries and need to see if they can attract other women's attention....
But ....u have been together for six years...that speaks louder than words...he does love u but seems insecure about something in ur present relationship...
Try to talk to him and find out...
good luck!!
2006-10-24 00:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to flirt with other women, obviously he doesn't feel like you're enough for him. Let him go and find a nice guy who will show you how special you are to him. A man who truly loves you won't go around flirting with anyone else. Men are dogs, and my boyfriend would be the first to admit it. They look and stuff, but that doesn't mean they have to flirt. Especially since flirting is a internationallly recognized sign of availability.
2006-10-23 08:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like his behaviour then you shouldn't put up with it. Tell him straight that you feel uncomfortable with his flirting and that if it doesn't stop you should leave him. I have been there and after a few years found out he wasn't just a flirt but also a cheater. He was so obsessed with proving himself he riuneed our relationship. ytou should go out and find someone better to dpend you life with. And remember it is NEVER just harmless fun if you get your feelings hurt.
2006-10-23 07:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by bonfireheat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves you, then he would not be flirting at all. But considering the nature of men. If you also truly love him , then be secure in his love. Trust that he would not go beyond that which will compromise your relationship. (like having sex outside, etc) Sometimes men need ego boosters, and flirting is one method for them to boost it. ( It inflates their ego, when women respond to them). So either, you can tell him straight that you cannot tolerate his behaviour, or you can shrug your shoulders and be tolerant and understanding about it.
2006-10-23 08:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not in a relationship you just have been having sex with someone for a while.....I think you already know the answer to your own question.....because if you have to ask....you probably already know.....give him his independence and get rid of this loser....move one .....man I can never figure out why some girls allow guys to treat them the way they do....
2006-10-23 07:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he need to flirt with others
tell him to flirt with yourself, maybe he needs some thrill in his life which he try to find somewhere else
girl he might loves u but needs fun in his bored life
u shud give him some freedom rest solve out by talking to him.
2006-10-23 08:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky, to have such friend, who has exposed himself, before marriage. Now it is you to reflect, :-
either accept him and enjouy a good sex life in a group, because he will provide you many friends.
Or reject him, to have a good private life, and also
a desease free,
Jelious free,
Quarrel free,
Tension free life.
So, opt as per your choice.
2006-10-23 21:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is looking elsewhere. especially flirting online, because you have to go looking for that. flirting is harmless, but if he hasn't done it before it could be bad.
2006-10-23 07:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by sleepyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating on you --- even if its only online --- he is being disrespectful to you by even asking to flirt
tell him no and see what happens --- someone who cares will back off
2006-10-23 08:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you will follow his lead and do the same...see what his reaction is..
2006-10-23 08:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋