I trust her but i just don't understand what they need to talk about, and I'm not insecure but I just don't like the fact that they had sex and she says "Its not even like that", is this ok? I don't associate with any of my past females I've had sex / relationship with, so i don;t think thats fair
2006-10-23 00:48:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She gets all mad and says why can't she be friends if they were friends before we got together, I know the guy and we are coo and she says she tells him that she is happy with me, but what do they need to talk about?
2006-10-23 00:57:32 · update #1
She never cheated they had sex before we even met
2006-10-23 01:03:09 · update #2
no..it's like wanting for more if you continue..
you're the boyfriend, don't allow her to do that to you and you are not allowed to do that to her too...how can she love you if she doesn't respect what you think about the situation?
if she continue with this...call it a day and buzz off...
2006-10-23 00:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you know better that you are causing problems. And that you are not ready to have another relationship with someone that has respect for you and you are not respecting them back. Just leave him or her only and be to yourself until you are ready to be with just one person. You may have a sex problem. And i think you should have yourself check because if you do this alot you must have some disease. I'm shore of this. And you are causing a crime to have sex with another and you are not clean. You can make him or her sick. When you sleep around.
2006-10-23 00:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by lbmish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated, lived with, and almost married a girl 10 years ago. Even though there is nothing of that between us any more she is one of my best friends in the world. People you have been intimate with tend to know you better than others, hence can give good advice if you're completely honest with each other.
2006-10-23 00:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by foolsowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She many not...but I guarantee he is trying to get another piece. It's ok because you are not married and boyfriends/girlfriends come and go. If it bothers you, tell her "Look, I don't like it and if it continues, then we need to go our seperate ways." At that point, you will know. I never understand why people put up with the crap during such relationships. TRUST ME...when you get married, the level of BullSh**T increases tremendeously. So why punish yourself now.
2006-10-23 00:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not okey, u shld tell ur gf to stop communicating to that guy coz for me its too overboard, she shld spare a tought for u n respect ur ego. be a man n don't be controlld by ur gf. its good that ur not insecure but its bad if ure being pushd around n don't fight back. if ur gf had sex with that guy during ur relationship, i can tell u sufferd a lot. if she had it before u, then its just ryt to show some respect to u. n ure ryt, there is no need for them to talk unless there is something that connects ur gf to him, u shld be on guard....
2006-10-23 00:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mate talk to you girl tell her how you feel do you get what i'm saying you are the man so make your decision
2006-10-23 01:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel,if her reply doesnt satisfy u may be u should review ur relationship again...things like these are not good for a healthy relationship...
2006-10-23 00:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not o.k! cheating is never evr o.k , if you want to cheat why even waste time getting into a relationship
2006-10-23 00:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by peachypeach746 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's ok. but if she starts to talk and text that someone all the time, then it's not ok.
2006-10-23 00:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Zuoi bu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it's not ok. that would cause a trust issue
2006-10-23 00:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by chris h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋