he just dumped me over msn he said it like he was happy that broke my heart i dont no what 2 say or even do i feel so bad & stuff is like all bad now can u please tell me how 2 get over him or how 2 make him like me - like flirt wif his friends
2006-10-23 00:41:21 · 17 answers · asked by Sexcaii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
& how can i not look up set & not hemilated 2morrow at school like wat shood i look like
2006-10-23 00:49:03 · update #1
if he dumped you over MSN he has no balls! Don't take him back because he's imature. Time will heal your broken heart. BUt you seem to be young and you might think the pain will never go away but it does. I recommend hanging out with your friends alot, partying, playing sports to occupy your mind!
Good luck.
2006-10-23 00:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by KinfOfPly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, i've been dating for 15 years. When i get hurt, i get busy, for me that is the time to catch up on all the things i put off, like spring cleaning, getting rid of old clothes, and old memories! If i start thinking about the guy, i associate him with something bad, which usually is a bad memory of him. Perhaps in your case, the guy didn't seem to respect you enough to breakup with you in person or at least over the phone.
The thing is, and the most likely reason i have been dating for 15 years, is there is always someone better. All this sounds easier said than done, I'm sure. Breakups have phases, eventually you should forgive him.
For now: Definitely be beautiful. Definitely DO NOT flirt, date, or even sleep with any of his friends. Get in touch with who you are. Learn that it is OK to be alone. If you really want some kind of revenge, not only just show him but really be happy without him.
May I also recommend the book: "He's just not that into you." This book really opened my eyes to stuff I just wasn't seeing!
2006-10-23 01:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he broke up with its because he doesnt feel about u like u do about him and it is hard when u get dumped but you will get over it. In anyway why would you want to be with someone that doesnt want to be with you.Your a bright young girl go out and have fun there are lots of guys that would like a chance with u. And u will get over him quickly. now go and have fun without him ok. also him breaking up with u over msn thats just mean. forget about him
2006-10-23 00:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by dragonredjoburg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, you will just have to move on as I seriously think that he is not worth you. Show him that you can live without him. Treat him like dirt. I know that it is easy said then done. But trust me as it is good for you. Treat your self with the best things in life. Make a date with your girlfriends. Go shopping if it helps but remember not to over spend. I think that he is a total jerk for dumping you over msn. Keep that in your head and it will help you in moving on. Get on your shoes and enjoy being single again!! :)
2006-10-23 00:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by annaliza_257 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your should learn to ccept things and let go. Im sure your young and pretty. His not worth for you and you really deserve someone better. Just think about it being dumped via msn? is he a man or what? and im sure someone out there is just right for you.Just think of it as your learning experience. You can forget about him just keep yourself busy. Go out with fiends. Pamper yourself and have fun. Goodluck in finding your other half =)
2006-10-23 00:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by KD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, flirting with his friends is not going to make him like you. Besides, why do you even want a coward like that to like you? Dumping somebody online? What a wimp!!! I'm sorry you're hurting, but believe me, he did you a favor.
2006-10-23 00:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well flirting with his friends wont do a damn thing if the guy is smart. I wouldl advise you to move on. find another guy who will actually take care of you. and remember, you CANNOT change a man. no matter how hard you try.
2006-10-23 00:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that you were dumped. It hurts, but in time you will realize he is a jerk, and he lost the best part of the deal; he lost you.
2006-10-23 00:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is better to dumped him too. The person how does not have any emotions for your feelings he is not fit for you. It is good for you to see straight........
2006-10-23 00:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by Leo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you use another person to try and make him jealous or to try to get to him you will be no better than he is. just move on and you will find someone else who will make you happy
2006-10-23 00:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by chris h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋