Why am I asking very deep questions about relationship for the last few days here? .. lol .. Because is it:?

Question

1. I cant fall in love at all
2. I dont have money to buy a single rose
3. I am greedy
4. I am so seriuos about my future partner
5. I may not be attractive
6. I dont have opportunities to meet ladies
7. I cant afford to go out
8. I dont have any sense of humour
9. I may be too shy
10. I may have unconventional appearance
11. I may have particular expectation from a lady
12. I may be too romantic and unrealistic
13. I may not have the confidence
14. I may not be bubbly, sincere, honest, kind, adorable
15. I may not be a easy going person
16. I may be a nutter ...lol....
17. I may be depressed
18. I may be very unlucky person
19. I may be a nasty person
20. I may not know how to approach a lady
21. I may be too deep about my loving partner
22. I may be negative about things
23. I may be too respect and value ladies more I than I should do ..
24. I may not lisetn my innersense
25. I may be too extream about my loving parter and scared
26. I may be a born worrier
27. Any more please ..

Answer 1

Because you're doing what every single one of us is doing. You're hoping that someone somewhere will somehow give you the best advice of your life, even though they're a complete stranger. Or you like trying to help people. Or your trying to get your emotions out so people know how you feel regardless of who it is. Or you just like asking questions to see what kind of response you can get out of people.

I think you're putting relationships too high in your priorities for life. But me being the stranger that i am, will you even think about it?

Answer 2

Thanks! You've made me realise that I worry to much and that all of these things could be true about anyone, but where is the fun in worrying? Why don't you find out practically and grab the bull by the horns?

I've been writing lists like this for a while now, and I've realised that they make no difference. I don't know what I'm like, I am in someways all of the above. I contradict myself. I care too much, and worry of being too intense, but within a few minutes I feel that I am a cold and reserved person. Can you be both within the space of a few minutes? Do they cancel each other out perhaps?

The best thing is to look at your good points and go with them, the ones that you just know that people like.

I looked at sites about flirting and courtship they were useful, but made me feel pretty bad because I realised that I did so many things wrong!

Best of all have a sense of humour about yourself, that is what is most important. Personal acceptance, faults and all.

Answer 3

Same answer as last time you posed this question:

Focus on the bad things you'll get bad results

Focus on the good things you'll get good results

Up to you to chose how much time you're going to spend on the good or the bad aspects of your personality.

Might be worth focusing on the good and then work on selling/marketing to people around your strengths rather than your weaknesses

Answer 4

I ask deep questions to, sometimes i just need to get stuff outside my mind, so i post it here on yahoo- Its 3 AM here and im an 18 year old college student. No one else is awake but my good friends here.

Answer 5

possibly all of the above. tho not number 19 and lol indicates you have a number 8! lol

Answer 6

No 16 sounds about right.

Answer 7

maybe you want an answer..?

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I see 27 "Why" questions...
yet I believe that 1 "how" question may achieve what you want better.
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How do I find and be with someone that I love who loves me enough to be together with me with us having fun and enjoying this togetherness in this lifetime (and beyond - if you believe in soul mates)?
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Answer 8

28.you spend too much time on yahoo answers xx

Answer 9

having so many qualities in life, u have lived a perfecct life.
just d..

Answer 10

you have insecurity issues and too much time to think about this stuff.

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