I just cant seem to come to terms with her ex. She also told me that he was much much larger than me. Mow I cant get this outa my head. Help!
2006-10-22 22:50:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that's rude and disrespectful for her to tell you that. Did you ask her, or did she just volunteer that info?
2006-10-22 22:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off, any girl or guy that would compare the size of one partner's penis to another is not much of a partner. Yes it is fine (although maybe a little unsettling) to comment once maybe but if they persist in bringing it up, I'd say they have some sort of problem. Plus if a girl likes a guy only because of his penis size I doubt she'd be worth keeping even if you have a big one.
On the other side, if you penis is 6 inches plus or minus a bit then you are perfectly normal and the other guy is just plain bigger than average. As long as you use what you have really well, then comparing yourself to others on the basis of size isn't worth doing since sexual performance is not determined by size. I know guys who are bigger than my 7" who are way worse in sex and guys smaller than me who can perform better. It is quality not quantity that really is the measure of the person.
2006-10-25 07:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ,
What is going on with her to tell you THAT anyhow... Now listen, think, is the size of a penis or breasts basis for a happy marriage NOT! Maybe you need to examine what you guys have in common and if your life goals are the same and are you both going down the same road to get to where you BOTH wanna be. Remember something and I want to say I have learned this more than once and will not make the same mistake again... LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH TO KEEP A MARRIAGE GOING FOR THE LONG RUN. You need compatibility. Shame on her for telling you that. Everybody knows its not the size, its how you use it. You are perfect the way you are. :)
2006-10-22 22:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by alheseas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HER! She's comparing you to someone else and you're being left feeling belittled. You don't need her> i guarantee you that she's no even hot. Dude, you're wasting your time. Find someone who will appreciate you for what you are and have. The best relationships come from those who recognize all your flaws and love you for them.
2006-10-22 23:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by RICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry it is not the size of the penis it is how you work it. I had a bf with a small penis and to this day he was the best.
2006-10-22 22:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by kitten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend was a moron for telling you that in the first place. You have to try harder to get it out of your head. If he was so wonderful she'd still be with him, but she's not.
2006-10-22 22:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's good for the goose is good for the gander:
Tell her about your previous girlfriends and their amazing, firm, large breasts, perfect figures etc.
What does your g/f have to gain by telling you about her ex?
2006-10-22 22:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's so rude and shouldnt compare. You cant change anything. Tell her that this is you Take it or leave it. How rude
2006-10-22 22:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by mama seeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** that gal and dont ask detals about her sex
one thing is clear ur gal is ***** , if she can clearly share u about her ex 's size of penis
2006-10-22 22:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is gonna sit there and say ythings like that to you then why be with her?? their are more girls out there willing to love what you have not for the size or anything, but for you./...
2006-10-22 22:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by A m a n d a [[D o l l f a c e]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋