sunnykool sorry mate you should know what to do buddy don't ask anyone use your head and heart
2006-10-22 22:49:50
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answered by Joe_Young 6
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Well, it sounds like you are better off than most folks your age. I think you are headed in the right direction. Get some money in the bank in savings and checking that way if things work out or not in the a marriage later on you will have some money saved for the good and the bad times in the marriage and if it don't you will have a head start on helping yourself for later on if you are put back into the single life again as it were. Hopefully the marriage will be a longgggg lasting one, but make really sure before you do the plunge. Some folks get married just because they like the word "MARRIED" OTHERS DO IT TO GET AWAY FROM HOME AND THEIR LIFE THEIR AND THEN THERE ARE THOSE THAT DO IT JUST BECAUSE EVERYONE / FRIEND THEY KNOW IS ALREADY MARRIED and they feel like they shoud be part of the SO CALLED IN CROWD . Don't do it for those reasons IF YOU NOT SURE OR NOT IN LOVE THEN JUST WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE AND YOU WILL KNOW WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT. TAKE YOUR TIME AND ALSO TALK WITH THE PARENTS AND LET THEM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND NOT WANTING TO GO INTO SOMETHING WITHOUT THE LOVE THERE, THEY WILL KNOW WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM.
2006-10-23 14:48:44
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answered by dixieprayerlady 3
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Does anyone else have a problem with the fact that a 24 year old is asking on a chat board whether she should get married just because her parents say so? And what job she should do.
I think this person needs to have some time with a personal counselor, life counselor or possibly a clergyman or even psychiatrist.
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2006-10-23 12:43:22
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answered by matt 7
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Parents know the track record of their children.There must be a reason behind their asking you to get married, whether fixed by them or by your choice or by both. Discuss with your parents frankly but nicely, and hear their views, also ventilate yours.The outcome will definitely be good.Assuming that you are from a place where jobs are not easy to find, you have to keep plugging and work systematically.You will definitely be successful.
2006-10-26 14:10:16
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answered by Ishan26 7
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What has your relationship status got to do with your folks?
Do a job that you enjoy and If they want you to get married so much - Move out , share a place with a mate maybe but get some Independence away from them... You'll probably grow a lot more as a person too.
2006-10-22 22:52:21
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answered by mark leshark 4
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first,don't get married if u don't want to,Ur 2 young after all...first make a work career so u can be independent in Ur marriage and then find the right guy and do it...its a good job if u like it,if u don't u ll never succeed!!
2006-10-22 22:56:54
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't think you should rush to get married if you are not ready, but if you live at home maybe you should try to find a place to stay, maybe your parents just want time on their own, that way you will be independant and take your time to choose to do what you want to do.
2006-10-22 22:50:30
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answered by Anonymous
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They say it is not lack of money but lack of ideas how to get it. What I mean that it doesn't matter where you are for you to excel but what you do inorder to excel. The advise I can give is be a goal planner and also be a goal getter.
2006-10-22 23:03:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell your parents that it's not up to them. Point out that they are not who you are or want to be. Start dating a cheap prostitute and I bet they'll shut up about marriage.
More seriously, take life as it comes and make the most of it rather than substituting dreams and plans.
2006-10-22 22:58:44
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answered by beast 6
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if you have a stable partner and both are you really wants and is ready to but is short of money, you can go for quick loan. but this is only short term. if in long term you are still unable to support yourself you obviously is not ready. if not just get engage?
2006-10-22 22:58:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Explain your ideas to your parents. I am sure they will appreciate your views. Tell them your plans and be open with them and tell them that it is not a love affair.
2006-10-22 23:08:47
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answered by Meeto 7
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