me n my bro got in a fight this weekend after his wedding because i said fck his wife cuz she disrespected me in the worst way then we got in a fist fight and i told him if he's gonna choose her over me then fck u and everybody else, i tear dropped frm his eye and he walked away, should i apoligize 4 something like that when i think i deserve an apology, this weekend was the worst....i never felt so fckn heart broken especially cuz it was my best homie and at the same time my bro and he chose her side over mine i dont know what to do.. :[
2006-10-22 22:41:34 · 11 answers · asked by smokes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she put hands on me n so did her aunt it wasn't me fault, no disrespect to n-e 1 but white ppl like drama n i guess they asked 4 it, my big sister was about to beat her and her aunts *** all i could say is fck em i just feel really badd about my bro, i was even the best man. he knows that they fcked up but i guess.. idk i feel like sht n no im not immature and disrespectful but i tell it like it is and if ur gonna wright something to dis me then dont write at all foo
2006-10-22 23:08:13 · update #1
smokes...i feel for ya...which makes it so much harder to say whats coming next.
GROW UP! how dare you act like that on your brothers special day! and the worst part is you can't take it back. Is the world going to stop spinning just because someone you don't particularly care for disrespects you? No, so why bother going to
these lengths as payback? tell your bro your sorry about your lapse of judgement, you love him so much, and you don't want to ever lose the close relationship you two have, etc...he will forgive you but you better apologize first!
And in the future, don't put much stock in what S-I-L says if you two can't get along...because bro married her and he sleeps with her and conflict between you and her will only flow over to him. Ignore her and in the future , REFUSE to engage in that kind of pettiness.
good luck :-)
p.s. i tell it like it is too
2006-10-22 23:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by kimandchris2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My original answer is below...however, had I known you were a racist, I would have ignored you. Good luck in life, you'll need it.
It seems like an easy question until you look at all of the affected people involved in such a family dispute. First, if you want the truth, yes, apologize. This was your brothers wedding day and regardless of how your new sister in law dissed you, as a sister who respects her bro, you may want to try to be more mature than her and let your brothers (hopefully) once in a lifetime event remain a happy one. A fist fight at or directly after a wedding is disrespectful to everyone. You obviously love your brother very much, so you may want to consider letting her "think" she won this fight (you and others will know who the real winner was - it's usually the one who considers others when reacting and makes the mature decision).
2006-10-22 22:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by aguila_monster 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ok...you've been fam forever...he just married this girl and chose her over you...more power to your bro! You hurt him and disrespect him and his wife on his wedding day...sometimes you need to just bite your tongue, and let things go. Was it wise to tell him that his wife was a fckn *****??? I think you know what you need to do. Your his bro and you'll always be that...but the connection between husband and wife is much more powerful. I don't think he chose her over you, he was just protecting her. Think about it...give it sometime, let your mind and heart cool and then you decide, do you really want him out of your life or do you want to apologize? Your the only one who can decide on this one. Good luck...choose wisely and be ready to accept all consequences. ;-)
2006-10-23 00:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by ~p♥kes~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...it's not too complicated. She disrespected you then you disrespected her. An apology is in order if you want your bro to still be your bro. You're gonna see alto of her if they just got married and he's still your bro after the incident. Swallow your pride and apologize. Good man!
2006-10-22 22:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by BadBill 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some time its best to be one who apoligizes when its something like this your bro had a very important day and to be honest you may have ruined it for him he loves that girl and he love you but i dont know what happend so just apoligze and see what happens good luck
2006-10-22 23:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think its time that you grew up.maybe part of the problem here is that you are jealous. you also need to realize this is now his wife. and if he is any kind of a man, he will stick up for her, yes even when it comes to family. and i think its a shame that you could not have chosen a better way to handle the problem, on his wedding day. you should say that you are sorry, for acting the way you did, on what was suppose to be the happiest day of their lives.
2006-10-22 22:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Apologise now 2 ur bro. Ignore her.
2006-10-22 22:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by forget it 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think u should appologise him and her cause no matter what shes his wife and that was their wedding and u shouldnt brake the wedding just for some words.u could talk to them after the wedding.if i was in ur place i could wait untill its over than talk to her.now u hurt her and ur brother,u have to tell them that ur sorry but do it before its too late..............
2006-10-22 23:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to know what the fight was about before answering this one!
2006-10-22 22:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by bougainvillaea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should apologize ur bro, if u value relations.
2006-10-22 22:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by amsu06 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋