pregrant and scared?

Question

iam pregrant for ahoilday romance, ihavent told him or any1 idont no what to dose it realy mean ihave ruined my life and should itell him

Answer 1

having a baby does not ruin your life i was 17 when i had my daughter it was the best thing i have ever done she is an amazing little person now and it makes you realise that you may think you are making a mistake but your not to me the biggest mistake i could of made would be the abortion thing of a ababy as a new beginning a new chapter in the book of life
dont be scared i think you need to go see him an see what he says but dont be bullied into anything you have to do what you feel is right for you good luck

Answer 2

calm down u havent ruined ur life there still lots of things u can do with ur life lyk become a baby sitter full time if u do have the baby ect theres plenty of options and yes u should telll him then no matter what he says then tell a parent or a trusted adult as they can stand by u and help u to make the right decisions here are some of the options u can have this baby and live on benifits as u are entitled to them being a single parent or maybe he would b happy to have the baby with u and support u and his child or u may even have to think about abortion but u shoud talk to the baby dad and a parent wen considerin abortion because once u have done it theres no goin back

gd luck and i hope u find the right decision xx

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Don't be afraid but you must see a doctor first and bring a trusted friend with you, having a baby is the start of your life as a father I couldn't have wished for anything better than my two kids they have made my life and hopefully this will be a start to yours, there is no sense in worring now that the damage is done you need to get help,

Answer 5

Do you still see him? If so you must tell him then you can talk through the best way to go forward. If you don't see him and are unlikely to see him again, then talk it over with your mum and then decide the best thing to do.
Your choices are go through with it and keep the little one, go through with it and have adopted or have a termination.
To be honest and judging from the way you have written the question you are not too well educated and would have a very tough time bringing up a child. Have a termination.

Answer 6

First things first. Calm down, your life isnt ruined. I think you should tell your parents. No matter how angry they will be they will help you and stand by you. If you can't however do this then you must see somebody professional who can help you. Maybe your doctor or a social worker. Will the dad help you? How old are you? How old is he? Don't do anything silly until you hae spoken to soembody. There are plenty of places and people who can help you. Dont worry. It will all work out one way or another. Good luck.

Answer 7

This is real a wonderful event, you have a baby on the way. Congratulations. Yes tell him and share the good news. A baby is really a gift, which now one can deny, a shock sometimes but they do bring their own love and as a father for the last 19 years I would recommend it to all my young friends.

Answer 8

You should ring the brook family planning association...they will talk through the options you have, and work out what is the best option for you. You should confide in a close friend..which will offload some of the worry.

Answer 9

how old are you?? .. are you in a job ?? you haven't ruin your life you have alot of option... which all need to be considered with great thought.. go and see you local family planning they will talk you though your options and if you decided to keep the baby they will guide you though what you need to consider looking after it.. and also they will help you tell your parents this is assuming you are young.. but if you do decided to keep the child you need to tell the father it is not fare on him or the child.. good luck ... you'll be fine.... I had an unwanted pregnancy 2 years ago if you would like to know what I did and how I delt with it email me any time and we can talk about it .

Answer 10

I think its better to tell him and your family then you will have support from at least someone you wont have to handle it on your own the longer you hide it the worse it will be your life is not ruined. I mean if you ignore the problem its not just going to go away
Good Luck