I have not been asked on another date except for 1 person - and I'm not into sex until it will mean something - I'm honest with a sense of humor and have good communication - nothing juvenile but mature adult conversation - just wondering if anyone in my age bracket has the same problem and could give some advice.
2006-10-22 22:19:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in the same boat so how about meeting.
Just be yourself if its to happen it will doesnt matter what you do on first date second will follow, just dont rush just go with the flow
2006-10-22 22:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by woody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, It's quite difficult after being out of the dating game for a while. I'm a male in the same age bracket going through the same thing. I think the first date should occur in a fairly public situation, for example the local club or pub for a few drinks and see a band. I believe that on the first date you only try and find out infomation which helps you ascertain whether there's any spark or interest which may lead to the relationship developing. I find that at our age it's best to take a 'slowly, slowly' approach. Be sure of what you're prepared to accept.
2006-10-22 23:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I never had that problem, maybe that's why I can give you advice. Each guy I've been with has asked me to marry him, or live with him. The first date is about mystery, dressing nice, never play games, just ask alot about him, really understand men, what makes them tick. Then you know how to make them happy. Don't concentrate on making yourself happy, let them take care of you. If they do a good job, you should want a second date with them. That's the most important thing, focus on how you feel about them. Make it so you dont need them, but your not too independent.
2006-10-22 22:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by purple_butterflyuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a bit older than you but the same .I just have coffee as a first meeting that way if we dont like each other we can leave quickly .If the first date goes well then i ask the woman if she would like to go out again and where she would like to go even if its a boring place for me I will go the next time I suggest a place by then you have talked enough to know what she doesnt like and avoid them .Goodluck
2006-10-22 22:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be urself .. Im 31.. and i stoped dating a long time ago.. maybe because i have too many expectations .. and i just realized it is not a great idea to have too many expectations.. Yet i can't be a fake.. So im not in a hurry ... I guess what im trying to say is if u feel right the first time there is nothing to worry about.. goodluck..
2006-10-22 23:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if im 18 -____- but you know, i hear alot that you may be 40, but my mind still feels like im 25. Good laughs and a good time usualy lead to a 2nd date.. Maybe to a nice restruant. I doubt a movie will work, thats usualy for the younger guys-
2006-10-22 22:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been chatting with a guy for almost 4 mos...n we'll be meeting soon here in my country...i think guys at ur age r more sincere.....n honest n have a good sense of humor too.....well m 27 i prolly wud give him the chance to date me again n again......
2006-10-22 22:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya, I am about the same age and it isnt nmuch fun getting out there and dating again. Lets talk.
2006-10-22 22:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpio9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep an open mind and have fun,if it's not successful,you can't have too many friends,can you? Take your time! You're still young...
2006-10-22 22:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by kick it 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take interest in the person you are dating. making yourself as interesting to that person as well.
2006-10-22 22:36:07 · answer #10 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋