I was having the most passionate relationship ever with my married former employer, when i was still working for him. it was the most fun and best sex either of us have ever had. like i just can't explain how hardcore it was. I know he still wants it but as soon as i stopped working there he stopped it completely, do u think maybe she got wind of us or what, and how can i get him to cross that line again? there is also an age differance of 13 years maybe that bothers him now(he's the elder), cause he was kinda uncomfortable with it when we first started?
PS I know it's wrong etc... blah blah heard it all before, don't care it's just sex and we used to drive each other crazy.. also they don't even like each other anymore so she should thank me for saving her the trouble...
2006-10-22 21:06:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, so yeah what happened is wrong but in a different sense. Its in human nature to have and want sex, its basic animal instinct. And more than likely if things weren't going good at home like you say, he probably wasn't getting his sex at home. So he looked to the first place he could find it: at work. And since you don't work there anymore, well he ended it. Or he could have been using you to validate his relationship/marriage, and he realized that what he had was what he really wanted. Guys need some reassurance every once in a while. I'd say move on and meet someone else, it sucks, but it's probably your best bet in the long run. Best of luck...
2006-10-22 21:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by micktobi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you let him do you in the --s? Did you lick his ---s? If it was just ordinary sex, I doubt he's missing doing you right now. It was just fun to do someone much younger than him. But he's not going to throw away his marriage, leave his kids, lose half of his money/assets, etc. For a fetish of a younger girl. But if you did get freaky or hardcore as you call it. Then the reason he's not looking for you is because it was a work thing. He may have thought that you got down with him for preferential treatment/money, whatever. You still want grandpa? Go get him. I don't know any man who will turn down young hot stuff
2006-10-23 04:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Big Milt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it has anything to do with your age, but maybe your maturity level.
He might have broken it off because his guilt for cheating on his wife probably got to him. And as far as them not like one another... you do realize that guys lie, and most will say anything to get you to **** them.
He dropped your ass because you were no longer convenient for him to screw at a whim. Given it may have been great, fantastic sex for you, the guy was getting the best of both worlds. Not only does it seem he was playing his wife, but you as well.
The fact that you knew it was wrong and you dont care, shows a lot for your character too. Not that I am perfect but when you are the wife and or girlfriend and this scenerio happens to you, remember it's just sex.
Grow up
2006-10-23 04:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, this guy has been having affairs for a long time! Once you left where you were working it was the perfect gap for him to move on to the next girl. The sex might have been driving you crazy but putting him to sleep, he has moved on and so should you!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 04:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy was just a Fu** buddy then what is the problem, just get another, If he was more than that then you formed an emotional attachment and this isn't the best thing to do. Married men never leave their wives
2006-10-23 04:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey
the sex was great because it was risquey (that's all). It was hardcore because of the situation, and you want to be pounded again. What makes you any different from a cocaine addict?
2006-10-23 04:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by chilledguy27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you did was very wrong. for you its just sex and you have nothing to lose. he, on the other hand, has everything to lose. for starters his job, his wife, any children he has, most if not all he owns, his self respect, friends, and every thing he has ever worked for. i suggest you leave him alone but if you must try talking to him and see what happens. but remember this: for your own selfish desire you are hurting many people and ruining lives and you dont seem to care. and its people like you that destroy any chance of love for the rest of us. tramp.
2006-10-23 04:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh huh, talk to the guy one on one, if it's just crazy sex and neither of you really give a damn about each others feelings- tell him like it is.
If you worry the wife will catch wind of it, just be more prudent,
i.e. stop letting your genitals do all the thinking for you.
2006-10-23 04:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by yasiru89 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age gap is NOT the main problem . . as love is blind...
You should go ahead if you love him . . .
just google about siti nurhaliza's marriage to datuk K
they became asia's fav couple !
the gap is 20 years !
2006-10-23 04:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by megadisc 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if his wife left him he dose not want to lose half or more of what he has
2006-10-23 04:13:52 · answer #10 · answered by edward b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋