is it wrong to be 24 and still a virgin?

Question

i dont date much to busy with studying 2 be a doctor, my father is lawyer and my bf's used 2 be scare of my father. i live alone.

Answer 1

Nothing is definitely wrong with that!

Answer 2

No. In fact, why have sex at all?

I just wanted to add, you should have sex when your ready. People glorify being a virgin as if it meant you are the most innocent person in the world, mostly because of Christianity in our culture. Some people are ready to have sex when their 15. Some when their 12, Some when their 20. And some people, like some guys, actually want to have sex but no girls want them so they're forced to be a virgin even till 30.

So there's nothing wrong with being a virgin if that is your choice until your ready. And being a virgin at 24 and above doesn't mean you won some sort of moral a gold metal like some people make it out to be, your simply just not ready, so don't get arrogant over it. And their IS something wrong if you WANT to have sex, but no one will give you the time of day.

It's all relative.

Answer 3

of course not! some girls give their virginity away at a very young age and later on in life they act like it's not a big deal that they are not virgins anymore and that's because they wish they had their virginity, virginity is some very precious, and yes it truly is a gift you can give away once, you will feel really good when you give away to someone that you're in love with and vice versa, it's really powerful i supoose the first time, and though there are people in love who aren't virgins, im sure it definitely would feel different for them if they had the opporunity to give away their virginity to the person they love and want to be with for the rest of their life, so don't think of it as something weird or anything like that, it's something to be proud of...hey ur 24 and least you STILL have something special to give away to someone special :) give the gift to the person who deserves to get it, plus the guy you eventually give it to will feel special because just look at what you've given him...:)

Answer 4

It isn't wrong, it's your choise or it's something that just didn't happen.

I'm not sure what kind of person your bf was though...no harm meant, but if I'm really a girls bf she won't be a virgin for a few more years. And a guy who is afraid of his stepfather, well, I better don't give you my honest opinion about that :)

Answer 5

It is definitely not wrong. Not even close. You should give up your virginity when you're ready. Personally, I think it should be with someone special, but if it's not that's okay too. You should just make decisions based on what's best for you, and not for anybody else.
Good Luck and stay strong!

Answer 6

Honey!i should congratulate you for your efforts you have made to keep yourself in that situation till that age,most of the girls of your age have gone to bed with there boyfriends couple times,so dont think your behind the time and your not modern,yes you are and keep on with that spirit till you acquire what you want and the right man will come automatically by God's spirits and you wont believe if God can do wonders to anyone who praise his name and follow what he wants.
By providing the live example of my sister who she's 13 but she has already finished senior four and applying for high school,the girl is so huge(giantess)but she has her plans to acquire MA in Economists and develops more knowledge into her respect fields,so dont think its wrong,never at all,this is what God want us to live and other things will set thereselves automatically.
Keep on with that spirit and may God bless you in studies,byee!!!!

Answer 7

look ur father is a professional.u r studying docterate.its great.according to me u shud first concentrate on ur career than ur luv life.becum a doctor then njoy ur life as u wish.once ur future is secured u can easily carry an relationship.staying alone will help u get into studies.

Answer 8

Hell No!! Good for you, it is very rare for someone to hold off on that this day in age, you should be proud of it. You also get to skip all the problems and worries of being sexually active, like pregnancy and disease and the emotional issues involved.

Answer 9

Nope - it's not wrong....

You can be a virgin for your whole life if you want to.... some people might actually think that makes you a better person.

I think that virgins and sexually expirimental people are the same... neither good or bad.

Answer 10

Wow 24 and still a virgin, you go girl.
Your sitting on a gold mine

Answer 11

naw theirs nothing wrong with that, it just shows u respect urself, ur rare, diffrent than most people, i mean most people will lose it and nag about it later that they wish they were virgins, it means ur very special chill out ur fine, and keep going with ur studies cause a career is alot more important than love life.