okay ive been with this guy 4 about 9 months now and i cheated on him and he found out and still wants to be with me i think hes doing that 4 a reason but he says no. Than he says he want to do it back to me but with 1 of my friends i say no and he laughs and says k than pick a girl than i get mad and say no you go and find awhoe who wants you than he says how about a 3seem and i dont know what to do hes been callin me a whoe to and keeps bring it up and i tried to leave him than he starts to cry and says no baby you just ganna walkout like that? than i say no i love u so much i still want to be with you than were back together! than i go home and call him than he says ill call you back in 10min than never calls so i call than no answer okay now when i talk to him tomorrow hes ganna say no i fell asleep. Okay now my ? is what do you think hes doing or trying to do? Does he remind you of anyone cuz im so confused help girls dont know what the hell hes doing.
2006-10-22 20:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is going to be like that then leave him. let the baby cry to himself because it isn't fair to you to have him holding that over your head forever. You made a mistake and he wants to be with you still then he needs to build a bridge and get over it already or hit the streets
2006-10-22 20:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by lost in love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stand back and look at the situation as though it were your friend's problem you might be able to see that this isn't a healthy relationship. If you are feeling sad and stressed and like there's constant drama you really should let it go, be single and just have fun dating people. Once I got out of a messy relationship I realized how much more comforting it is to wake up each day and not have to fear some horrible drama with a boyfriend. And if you really truly cared about this guy like as more than just a fling you'd want to keep from cheating on him. Thus I think you know in your heart that for some reason he's not special enough to you to stay faithful. Also, he kinda sounds like an emotional basket case who obviously isn't over your cheating and will eventually let that anger boil over into cheating on you. Be careful cuz he may try to hurt you for revenge!
2006-10-22 20:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 9 months in and you cheated already, maybe he isn't the guy for you, maybe now isn't the time for you to be in a relationship. It sounds like you both need to grow up.
2006-10-22 20:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing you hot and cold, he wants to keep you around to let you the know of the feeling he got when you cheated. BACK AWAY QUICKLY before you get hurt... and you will.
there are more guys in the sea but plewanty more on land so keep looking for mister right... or mister right NOW
2006-10-22 20:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to move on...
2006-10-22 20:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋