I am a 35 year old female and have been dating a 58 year old man for 1 1/2 years. It has been wonderful. Sex is the best I have ever had. He is respectful, kind and we enjoy each others company. Money is not a factor, we make around the same. We have kept our relationship quiet because we are both private people; however, I love him with all my heart and really want to tell the world. Is he too old for me? Should I just enjoy whats happening for the moment? I need some advice on this relationship.
2006-10-22 19:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by t_soulmate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do YOU believe that the age difference is a problem?
does HE believe that the age difference is a problem?
I was in a relationship with a little more age difference than yours.
I found that there were lots of people who did see it as a problem.
Usually
this was people which is was none of their business...
but the "idiot wind" has a way of spreading.
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so how do you handle the peer pressure?
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If you can ignore it and he can ignore it.....
then
the world can see for themselves...
most won't care about the age difference and won't say anything
but
those that say something
well
that is who the age difference is a problem for...
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my belief
Age ain't nothing but a number.
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2006-10-24 01:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it dear, Yes age is just a number. You are only 23 years apart, that is not bad at all. If you are happy with each other then keep him and just enjoy what you have and keep the fire going, sounds like you are happy to me. Question; What if the ages were the other way around? how would you feel then? Believe me age is not a factor if you love each other, it is your world and no one else should matter.
2006-10-22 19:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and tell the world girl!!! It sounds like both of you are in a great relationship and happy, enjoy it while it lasts. There might be times when the age might be a problem but who doesn't have problems in their relationships?? You are both adults, enjoy it!! Age IS just a number
2006-10-22 19:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by momo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are happy with each other, then who cares what others think of you two dating each other? As long as you are both over the age of 18, then you two are still fair in the eyes of the law. There is nothing anyone can say or do to prevent you from seeing each other. If it bothers other people, then they should mind their own business instead of yours.
2006-10-22 19:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yes...
Age doen't really measure a person's ability to live his life and live for the others...
Someone may have lived all his years without accomplishing anything but someone may be too young but has "lived his life" more than the person mentioned earlier.
It's all in the level of maturity of our minds and not of our bodies...
Honey... It's how you'll live your lives here.
Even if he's aged but he has given you more than what you have expected of him out of his age, age is not an issue.
Physical isn't something you gotta be paying attention to.. it's the meeting of your hearts and minds...
Time takes away the youth no matter how much you wanna stop it but the feelings and the happiness contibuted is for a lifetime..
2006-10-22 19:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Undecided_Dr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sound like the perfect guy!
And YES AGE IS JUST A NUMBER!
Your only concern should be his health & perhaps if you still want to have kids!
If both of you love each other, if the sex is great if he treats you with respect - Then what more does woman want.
This one is a keeper....
Good luck
Mercaydees
2006-10-22 19:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by MERCAYDEES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number, as long as teh love is there nothing else matters, adn as for the world, screw the world. all that matters is you two. so if the love is there, and youre both happy, forget everyone else, get lost in each others arms.
2006-10-22 19:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have come to live a wonderful life. That is the greatest consideration.
2006-10-22 19:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should mentally prepare for sex with other age groups.
2006-10-22 19:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
23 years of difference. Obviuosly he is not mr.right.
2006-10-22 19:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋