im in love with my boyfriend, but everytime i see him, i feel really uncomfortable and dont know what to talk about! I want to show him that i love him, but i dont know how. please help me! thanks
2006-10-22 19:14:53 · 7 answers · asked by billy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Often it takes a while to feel comfortable and get over that shy stage. One thing is to come prepared with some questions that will reveal more about him. Tell him you are curious and want to know all about him. He will love the attention and think you are a brilliant conversationalist, and all you have to do is listen. And you will find out his values and standards and see if they match yours. Another fun thing to do is to get "The book of questions" and/or "The Book of Questions, Love and Sex." You take turns picking a number which corresponds to a question. You can play it any way you want, but I like for us both to answer the question. Then, we learn about one another and what we have in common. Plus, its fun.
2006-10-22 19:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by bluelotus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're nervous. Why? Figure out what's making you nervous around him. Is it a worry that he might want something you don't? Or maybe that you might drive him away?
The best way to show someone you love them is by figuring out yourself and making sure that you're going to be healthy and happy as well as helping them.
From there on, it's the little things that can add up. Cook a dinner. Show interest in his likes. For example, if he likes playing racing games, or watching movies about racing, actually look into it, see what you might like about it, and tell him, "Wow, that paint job must have cost a fortune" or whatever. If you can name car parts, do that. Find things that you BOTH like, and talk to him about them. And make an effort to try out some of the other things he likes.
2006-10-23 02:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by firewater_tears 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Sounds dumb, but that's the answer, be yourself. I used to be like dat around my ex girlfriend, I used to worry about how our dates will turn out, if she like it or not, how she's gonna judge me according to our dates, now I say f&*k it. Yeah f&*k it. If you really like him, dun think about him so much, it's for his own good. Do what you like, continue to live your life as if he's not it it and very soon you'll find yourself back again, you'll be more focus, and naturally you will have things to talk about, instead of always having something nervous on your mind whenever you're with him, worrying how your dates will turn out, what he will think of you, things like dat. Dun think of life in his context. Good luck!
2006-10-23 03:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, talk about things he likes maybe? Do you two have anything in common? Then if you do work on those things. If you don't have anything in common then you are wasting your time with him.
2006-10-23 02:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take out your sexual feelings and
behave like a good friend.
2006-10-23 02:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he should be the one making the moves so dont worry about it
2006-10-23 02:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by muthafaka8o8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a few drinks....
2006-10-23 02:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by that b puss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋