It's so because i have kept myself away from love,relationships,affairs,men all my life and those few boys that i know i have always looked at them as brothers.
2006-10-22 18:55:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
ok i sense you feeling a little sacred right now ,it called been committed to one person and that has your mind running all over the place right? this will pass believe me ,your just feeling unsure of been so close to the one you love, as for beaning comfortable, that a thing that will take time to settle down, try just been your self ,and let it take it course. it will happen ,and these thoughts will disappear.....this guy is not your bro,hes your lover/ friend and most of all yours, take your time tiss going to be fine.............
2006-10-22 19:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It is a shame to deprive yourself of the right to love and be loved. Anyway, marriage entails a lot of sacrificies, but if you have the right partner, it can be well worth it. Make sure your partner is the right one, though. Draw up a scoreboard or something and right down the things that you envision as important and then give your lover a point for every trait (one a scale from 1 to 10 for instance). Add up the score and judge for yourself if that total number is satisfactory or not. Good luck.
2006-10-22 19:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have answered your other Q? so, I know what is happening now.
I think you are young to be thinking of marriage.
If you are old enough say 27 year or 30 years then it is OK.
Things can change over night. What you are going thruough is normal.
There is time for every thing and every thing has its time and turn.
So stay in school and stuy hard.
Everthing else will follow, in time and time will tell.
2006-10-25 08:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its u've conditioned ur mind that marriage is not for u.Help urself remove these thoughts and lead a normal life,unless until there are some deeprooted things of not being into love and relationships.
2006-10-22 19:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married. If there is any question at all don't do it. Marriage is a serious relationship. It should not be entered into lightly. It is a contract between a man, woman and God.If you break your vows you've broken your contract. Which involves consequences you have to pay.
2006-10-22 19:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by mary n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell these things to your parents because what you are telling right now means that after marrige your relationship wont last long..only do marrige when you really think you need someone in your life and you need a family...and talk it out with your parents im sure they will understand..if they dont just refuse it just keep on refusing it..
2006-10-22 21:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by cool k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get married until you are comfortable with the though of being some ones wife. You should never get married until you are 100% sure that it is what you want!! Good Luck hon!
2006-10-22 18:58:12 · answer #7 · answered by Hydimyangel 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends what kind of expectations about marriage you and your fiance have, and whether these differ widely. Probably best to discuss this issue beforehand...
2006-10-22 19:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by andy c 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you feel like tht, deel some friends in different manner, I teach you to love, love is essential, it is an experience, contact me, I will not fall in love but I teach love.
2006-10-22 19:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Devaraj A 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Stay away from the marriage. Maybe it isn't really your cup of tea.
2006-10-22 18:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋