please tell me your opinions..as i am confused
2006-10-22 18:54:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being attracted to a person's looks is an innate biological imperative instilled within us in order to preserve the species. It's also a sign of healthy libido.
As for whether or not it's 'bad,' that would be a judgment, and thus in the eye of the beholder. There's nothing inherently 'bad' about being attracted to someone because of their looks.
Basing a relationship strictly on a person's looks, however, especially when one isn't attracted to their personality, can lead to trouble, I've found.
2006-10-22 19:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by funnyrob01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - I know that men are very visually stimulated. But it sounds very superficial. Even if she has a great personality and a good heart to go along with her awesome looks - if you only like her because of her looks - it's not too keen. Just a scenario: You marry her and take the vows "for better or worse" - and a few years later she's in a horrible car accident and her face is disfigured. Now what?
I don't think you like HER for her looks. You just like her looks. Is it bad? Probably not if you're honest about it. Would you tell her - "Hey - I like you for your looks!" ??? If you would - and if you do - and if she's okay with it. (which is all unlikely, in my opinion) then it's just fine!!
2006-10-23 02:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not all bad. But you should like her for a lot of other reasons too. Is she smart, is she funny, is she fun to be with, does she make you warm inside, does she make you smile, or laugh? Beauty is only skin deep always remember that. Not that it is bad to be good looking But there are a lot of things to consider when looking for a mate, not just looks alone.
2006-10-23 02:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Superficial
2006-10-23 03:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by brhntr51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but after awhile its not the looks that count. Its all about the personality. Ask anyone that married a looker only to find out they were not a real nice person.
2006-10-23 01:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay at first and if both of you just wanna be friends, then it is okay. But if you one or both of you are looking for a serious relationship, then it's not good. Any relationship that is based on superficial things won't last I guarantee it!!
2006-10-23 02:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by Acidburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks play a role in the first attraction but learning to know who they are is the most important.
you see a book with a really sexy cover and inside it is boring and dull same thing goes for people
2006-10-23 02:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by trvrrhds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dude!
Its the inside that counts!!!!!!!
If your just gonna be attracted to looks then your pretty dumb!!!
I mean lets say you guys have S E X what are you gonna talk about! Maybe she's one stupid girl who cannot even think for herself!!!
Looks arent everything Fayaz!!!!!!!!!!
Would you like a chick to just like you for ya looks?
What if you two get old together & she's all wrinkly & whats the conversation gonna be like??????????????
2006-10-23 02:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by MERCAYDEES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eyes are pleased with seeing good things. So it cannot be bad.
2006-10-23 01:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No actually MOST ATTRACTIONS ARE MADE BECAUSE OF LOOKS ONLY the rest fills in later as you get to know them and then thats when love or lust comes in play.
2006-10-23 01:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋