i'm 13 years old .. ok this might not seem such a big deal 2 u.. but my dad, who normally is really nice-just starts calling me an idiot.. what do i do??
2006-10-22 18:11:21 · 9 answers · asked by I'm insane 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think my mother was around.. and his father is sick.. so maybe thats it.. but i dont c y he has to take it out on me
2006-10-22 18:16:07 · update #1
Try to find out what is bothering him!
2006-10-22 18:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS A VERY BIG DEAL. And you should tell him that you respect him because he is your father and that is how he taught you so now it confuses you why he would not give you the same respect you were taught to give.
as for you, remember, he was probably called an idiot by his father or mother or someone who made him feel like one. it is a sign of weakness to lash out, but the majority of people do it.
dont ever take it personally, it is a flaw in his character, not yours.
2006-10-23 01:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by dansza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trip to hard on it, he just probably had a bad day. He could be frustrated with personal problems,and he's taking it out on anyone. If it continues just tell him " Will you please direct your anger some where else, 'cause I don't appreciate name calling? Thanks". Hopefully that will get his attention and realize what he's doing. If not I can help you out on how to handle the situation.
2006-10-23 01:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by saRita72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You honor your father, even when he's wrong.
When he is being nice, ask him if you can talk to him about something that's bothering you. Then, tell him how much you love him and how much it hurts you for him to call you ugly names. Ask him not to do that.
2006-10-23 01:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by asperens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter how old you are you feel disrespected & your feelings count. talk to him & tell him how you feel. Something might be going on in his life thats stressing him out & maybe he needs someone to vent to.I vent to my 14 year old & it helps even though she can't do anything, her just listening makes me feel better
2006-10-23 01:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well parents, are sometime idiots not realizing how special our kids ,and teens are go and ask dad ,to speak with him without a smile tell dad he hurt your feeling ,and tell him what he called you, tell dad you have feeling too good luck to you
2006-10-23 01:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mother about or confront your father and if he continues talks to a teacher about it or friends as well cuz they'll tell their parents
2006-10-23 01:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does it again, tell him you're worried about grandpa too.
2006-10-23 01:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-10-23 01:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Some 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋