2006-10-22 18:09:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they think us women should be able to "take a joke" and it's how the relate to one another, pitching each other crap is how they communicate. I have the same problem! They just don't get it.
2006-10-22 18:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by rtlsimpson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a basic difference between men and women.
Women tend to say things to each other that makes them feel great! such as "you look great" or "you are a strong modern woman". This is confusing to guys because just as easily as the complements come out, so do lies, and gossip. Complements to each other's face, gossip behind each other's back.
Men are always acting as if competing with each other and will say things that sound crude or insulting. That's how guys size each other up, and keep each other in check.
They are 2 different styles of communication, one while of flattery, but seems to lack sincerity. The other while more direct, lacks social grace. Both work within their respective audiences, and seem weird to the other.
2006-10-23 01:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by PaPi X 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the most part that guy is inmature as well as insenstive. teh crazy thing is that he probably likes you and figures this will keep other guys from being interested in you, that is the reason he apologizes all the time. My suggestion to you is to stay away for this person means you no good, he is not owrth your enegry.
2006-10-23 01:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by seriouslady4sure 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is one of the differences between men and woman. Men find certain deviant behaviors funny where women generally think it is repulsive. A lot of guys don't realize that what works with their buddies makes them fail miserably when they are with women. Guys like the dirty jokes, slapstick and the sounds of their bodily functions. Women generally think it is gross and sick. You guy seems to not realize that he needs to save the sleaze for his little buddies.
2006-10-23 01:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I find that all people not just men that say nasty things and then excuse their behavior by saying their joking are very ANGRY people. Just stay away from people like that. These kind of people are not honest with themselves or anyone else.
2006-10-23 01:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg i hate that!!! it gets on my nerves its like why the hell say it if your joking you know its going to upset me ...god i hate guys sometimes there so immature and only think about themselves
2006-10-23 01:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they really are. come on do u really think that men want no sex?
we give u little remarks cause were stupid. all men are stupid. even if they are doctors. no man is excluted. just put away the hormones and the tampon, and accept us for who we really are.........PIGS!
2006-10-23 01:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by RYAN M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they're trying too hard to be funny when they know it's lame
2006-10-23 01:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Omar 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to get your attention even if its negative
2006-10-23 01:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋