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KNOW THIS IS A STUPID QUESTION
but...
its a halloween party which promises to be TONS of fun. ill be DECKED OUT in my best (UNDEAD PROM THEME)
two ladies i have things for are coming. they both know i have a thing for them unless they are a lot less perspective than ladies tend to be.
wasnt sure if its best to flirt with both and risk pissing the other one off. flirting with one of them and pissing the other one surely off. flirting with the one that flirts with me more. or flirting with each on the down low (as i think the kids are calling it :)
any ideas on how to handle this would be greatly apprciated.

2006-10-22 18:03:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

18 answers

Flirt with both of them because you never know which one will take the bait. But be discrete, you don't want to hurt their feelings.

2006-10-22 18:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 0 1

I'm sure you are going to get a lot of negative answers to this, BUT I think as long as you are not implying you'd like a relationship with either than you should do what you want. You can flirt without getting physical and maybe without the other one seeing. If you like them both, flirt with them both. They are big girls and should be able to make their own decision about you.
Just don't act like you want a relationship with both. Don't be decieving or you probabally won't end up with either!

2006-10-22 18:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by butterfliesbrown 3 · 0 0

Only an idiot would do such a thing. You risk alienating either one or both of them. If you really like them you should be a gracious host and avoid hitting on them. Later, at another time and place, divide and conquer. Concentrate on the party, subtly set each one up and chase them later, as I said, separately.

2006-10-22 18:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by Puppy 2 · 0 0

more advantageous than likely in case you shop the them secret they'll both get mad and then you've gotten no longer something. What you do is introduce them to at least one yet another and tell them your subject. perhaps one will say you've the different. perhaps they'll paintings something out the position you flow out with one a particular time and the different yet yet again. or possibly you may have both mutually. they could both be into that. imagine about it

2016-12-05 03:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Flirt with both of them. Just make sure that they are separated when you do. Hell, flirt with all the ladies in the room. An alpha dog doesn't limit himself to just one woman. Flirting is just that. It shouldn't be taken seriously. Until you know that she is your woman, play the room. When you flirt the room, then you increase your chances of one of them eventually being your woman. If you only flirt with one of them, you hedging your bets on one "horse".

2006-10-22 18:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0 0

First ask yourself would you want to be treated like that. It is not nice to mislead people or play wih another persons feelings. One of these girls could really like you. I think that you need to take time to see what girl do you really like, before you do anything. if you can choose or make a decision I think it is best to be simply friends with them both, and I do mean just be friends. Don't do to others what you would not want done to you.

2006-10-22 18:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by seriouslady4sure 1 · 0 0

Be open to them flirting with you, but other than saying 'Hi' don't seek them out. One girl might decide she's not that into you, or they might get competitive, and you'll learn more about who they are when they're fighting. You might decide you'd rather go with the gracious loser than the insulting hair-puller

2006-10-22 18:05:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

U know what u should do? Make them think u aren'tinterested in them anymore, so tehy will eb real curious about you. All of the opposite sex always feels curious wen they are once liked and then not. Why? they ask. You might get kucky then.

2006-10-22 18:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Never flirt with two girls at one party! EVER!

2006-10-22 18:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by Devon M 4 · 0 0

I say pick the one you like most and go with that.
Because if you try getting both at the same place you're more than likely going to lose both.

2006-10-22 18:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0 0

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