i want to comfort her and it upsets me that she is comforted by others and that her guy friends can read her better then me, even over YIM and i can't even sometimes when i am with her, i am jealous, but i am letting go of it, i am working to not be jealous. what can i do, read this and keep in mind that i do not want to break up with her
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2006-10-22 18:01:19 · 8 answers · asked by ParadoxZero 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and btw i will answer her question, i love her and i will answer it once there are more people who answer her question
2006-10-22 18:02:49 · update #1
...to help her
2006-10-22 18:03:39 · update #2
i also want to use as many different people to answer her question so i can give her the best answer
2006-10-22 18:04:24 · update #3
BTW, we do talk thats why i/we want help from others
2006-10-22 18:05:39 · update #4
i like the asnwer that the person before me said and yea i love you very much and i want to work on this as hard as we can. we need a whole day together. hopefully that happens. well i guess thats it te amo <3 >beso< :*
2006-10-22 18:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read her question after i read yours. it seems like you both love each other, but your getting to that comfortable zone and so it feels like there's no longer any sparks. but sometimes love is not enough to keep a couple together. it looks like she's looking for the kind of attention you use to give her. you should do things that will surprise her. like buy her flowers out of the blue. whisper i love you when she least expect it. get to know her facial expressions and body language, that's should help you read her a little better. i know it's hard for some people to read others and you might be one of them. but you can certainly try. if you work hard enough to get to know her, you will soon learn to read her better. don't let this ruin your relationship with her. you two might still be young but it doesn't mean you don't truly care for each other.
good luck! i really hope everything will turn out great between the two of you!
2006-10-23 01:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
as a girl i do think that guys tends to over react about how well they know the girl, first off if you just started dating say.....a couple of months then you are now learning about her and it will take sometime, if you and her have been together for like a year and you still can't read her then you need to spend more time learning about her. Not b/c you see her means that you are learning about her you have to open your eyes or else it will pass you by.
2006-10-23 01:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by Smooth1221 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I have for you is to try to be more attentive. Ask her questions to find out how she is feeling.
Because of ya'lls age, it sounds to me like there will be a split soon.
She's a child thinking that you can read her mind about anything.
2006-10-23 01:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i left ur gr a long answer go read it
i hope it helps
i kno wu both dnt want breaking up as an answer
but sometime the answer u try most to aviod is th ebest answer
good luk =]
honestly u guys r trying VERYY VERYY hard to keep ur relationshihp
that is usually good
but u guys r youngg
u shouldnt have to try soo hard at somethin that the answer is obviouse but u want to aviod it
2006-10-23 01:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by suker4love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people need other releases... don't take it the wrong way, she probably means nothing by it. Some people give fantastic advice, others not so much (see, Yahoo!Answers). Basically, she comes to you for other things she wants/needs in her life. Be happy :)
Different relationships mean different things to different people. End.
2006-10-23 01:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by ladybacon13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to learn body language and open yourself up more. the ability to read people has to do with empathy, the more empahtetic you can be, the better you will be able to help her, in order to do that you have to put yourself completely to the side and focus on her, what she is saying, how she seems to feel and her body language. think how you would feel in the same situation and try to put yourself fully in her shoes. The message she posted to me seems to imply that you two have just stoped forward motion and are not doing fun things anymore. TAKE HER OUT TO EAT. you likely are not going out on dates often are not just making time for the two of you to cuddle up and have special time together (not sex mind you). she feels you are bored with her and so she feels bad about it and you need to help her with that :P
2006-10-23 01:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on over there and answer her QUESTION she is waiting on YOU! Go for the comfort and joy! She has lots of answers but she is still waiting on your answer! HURRY!!!!!
2006-10-23 01:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋