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I'm trying to hook up with this girl that really lights me up. I find myself thinking about her all the time. The first time we went out she kinda was the one who asked. I had a great time and we kissed before we left. We've gove out maybe two other times and she now seems alittle stand-offish. Even when SHE asks me to go out she seems that way. I havn't thought about being "with" someone (boyfriend-girlfriend stuff) for a long time, but I think I'd really like to be more with her. Normally I just kinda date and get bored. I'm usually very smooth with my words and always able to get a number or hook up but with her I get, well, I don't know. Here's the kicker.....we work together. It's so against my code to date at work, but she made the first move. I don't know what to do. Should I leave her alone or what? I feel like she feels like she made a mistake. Thanks in advance.

2006-10-22 17:53:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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well jeremy, a relationship can't get anywhere unless there is communication. i think if you really like her and can't stop thinking about her, then you should let her know that and leave the ball in her court. ask how she feels about you. you will find out one way or another.

2006-10-22 18:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Boop 7 · 0 0

If I was in her shoes and I made the first move on our first date. I think that you should take the prerogative to ask me out on the next dates if you really are interested in me. And not just interested in the sense that you are just looking for a booty call. What I meant is interested in the sense that you wanna hook up and see how the relationship will go, if it has the potential to grow into a real relationship or not. Basically, the ball is in your court and she must be waiting for you to make your own move. With regards with what you said that you work together, take it into consideration. If you are just looking for someone to spend the night with, I'd quit bugging her because in the end, it will just give you two an awkward working environment-unless she is into one night stands, then go ahead. Enjoy. But if you can sense that she is looking for a more stabe, serious relationship, then better end it now while feelings are still in check. Hope things work out for you! ;)

2006-10-23 01:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Acidburn 2 · 1 0

Maybe she is waiting for you to make the next move. Why not ask her out someplace where you will be able to talk with her - and then be honest - about your work ethics and how she makes you feel. Maybe she has some of the exact same feelings.

By the way, although it's generally a good idea not to date co-workers, lots and lots of people meet at work and manage to have successful relationships.

2006-10-23 01:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by zenobia2525 3 · 1 0

It's always hard to date someone where you work. What if it doesn't work out? That would be difficult. Talk to her. Tell her how you feel and about dating at work. I'm sure she'll understand. As long as it didn't go past "kissing", everything will be fine, you can still be friends.
Good luck!

2006-10-23 00:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by katie 4 · 1 0

if your friendship is tensioned it is not run good.you can be more patient with her

2006-10-23 00:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by adela_hantaru 3 · 0 0

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