I know this girl who i also used to like, but now it's getting clear to me that i'm only good for favors, to give her my attention. She doesn't call me like before just to say hi, but she accuses me of being the one who doesn't call and i used to do it often. She doesn't chat that often with me anymore either but when she does she said something like you owe me a treat and stuff like that. So i got annoyed and it was her birthday and i didn't say a word about it and she comes acting all sad because i didn't remember. After that we didn't talk anymore not even chatting. I think it was a good thing to get her of my back, what do you guys think ? Or should i apologize or something ? (which i might never do LOL)
2006-10-22 17:42:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to hell with her
2006-10-22 17:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by Stymie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question here. No self respecting man should ever let some chick walk all over him by allowing him to do for her and she gives nothing back. If you ever find yourself being the guy who is giving her gifts and not get any sort of affection in return, then you need to run, not walk away from this relationship. You did the wise thing.
2006-10-22 17:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT apologize to this chick, forget about her. I've been there before, i was a real idiot. I was the ultimate dumbass, i was nice to this chick and she took advantage of me. THen what happens, she starts dating some other guy who didnt care about her. She led me on the whole time, so dont let this girl ruin your life. Talk to a nicer girl, and dont let this chick make you feel guilty about anything. Let her realize that its her loss
2006-10-22 18:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was a good thing you did to not mention her b-day cuz seriously she was probably using you. you dont have to apologize for anything SHE has to apologize. so just wait till she comes around and if not, then forget about her
2006-10-22 17:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by rainyfriday09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree no one likes to be used, and you are not Santa clause or the Easter bunny, she can but her own treats
2006-10-22 17:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing.
2006-10-22 17:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok..... am pretty sure you just wanted to tell your story and don't really care about anybody's opinion around here....
But I guess you showed her! ......
yeah.....
2006-10-22 17:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Dahlia O 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋