im 19 and the love of my life is 32. He doesnt belittle me, and he treats me like a queen, respects me and my decisions. am i wrong for loving him?
2006-10-22 17:25:40 · 14 answers · asked by kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, 13 years isn't too bad of a spread and if you are mature enough to be on the same level with this great guy... go for it! No, real love isn't wrong... and if he is really in love with you and only wants your happiness.. then best wishes! My dad was 12 years older than my mom... and they were totally in love for nearly 40 years and then he passed away. That is the only real risk.. but it can happen to anyone at any age... any time.. no matter what! So, if you are ready to settle down with this prince of a man, I hope you stay with him and commit to him completely! I have a lot weirder stories in my family that happen with a lot more age spread than 13 years and everyone is totally happy about it! ;0)
2006-10-22 17:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by MaggieO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong for loving him but you have to be careful because at the age of 32 he has a lot more life experience than you and even though you feel grown up there are a lot of things in life that can go wrong that you may not know about. He could be using you, he could have a life you don't know about maybe even a family, he could have diseases, there are so many things. Also, if I was a 32 year old man I would want to have sex with 19 year olds but that does not make it right. You are barely legal and I worry that if you say you love him you may be inclined to sleep with him. If so, you should be epically careful. Good luck and talk to your friends and family about this guy, don't keep it a secret. Your chances of being safe are grater the more people who know about your relationship.
2006-10-23 00:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sheila D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say you are wrong, but I would wonder what you two have in common. I've seen couples who's ages differ but they go to the same school, or share a common interest. 19 and 32 big difference. I don't want to say you are wrong, but it is a bit odd.
Best Wishes and Good Luck!!
2006-10-23 00:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me age is wisdom. I am wiser now than I have ever been.
I look better to. I am so much more mature and I have the knowledge to avoid mistakes, unlike some younger people.
Age is a number, it does not matter if he is 32 to or 42 if he is good to you and makes you happy.
2006-10-23 00:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by dancinintherain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all depened on you /my wife to be 27 and i am 51 years old and we get alone fine as long as you are love and there respect for each other but at 19 years old youre are still grow as a person i think that the real problem give its a little time if its love then it will be there forever
2006-10-23 00:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is a way to tell the difference in birth between people. It was made by Humans. Love was not made by Humans, but rather by Human emotions.
No, it is not wrong, no matter what anyone says.
2006-10-23 00:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by KGB_Vampiric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good! uuuugh.... this is so frustrating! With all due respect, you are likely a trophy for him. Young girls should always be leary of guys that much older than them! Think about it... you are in two different places in life and should be at two different levels of maturity... why would he be dating someone so much younger? I can understand your attraction to him, but I think you would be much better off with someone closer to your own age. Think on it!
2006-10-23 00:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is only a problem if the parties involved make it an issue. I'm dating an older woman and we are going on two years. I rest my case.
2006-10-23 00:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you are. here's why. a guy that much older then you has problems with women his own age. they may feel he is not worth marring or dating because of one reason or another. or he himself finds that he can't relate to them or feels they are not willing to fall for his line's because they have a lot more experience seeing through his crap. so you a younger girl with very little life exp. would be fine pray for him because you would believe him more with out question simply because he is older. my question to you would be. why are you interested in him????? the sex? is he the father figure you are missing in your life? what ever it is don't be fooled by him you really have nothing in common, more likely he is using you because he See's you as young and naive. don't fool your self into thinking you both are equals.... your not.... fine a guy your own age and don t' give me that crap about guys your age being to immature......he will screw up the rest of your life before you get a chance to live it.....
2006-10-23 00:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a creep, dear. A man of 32 doesn't date teenage girls unless there's a problem. ICKY!
Sorry, but you're nineTEEN (a teenager) and he's creep. But go ahead and ask your dad what he thinks.
2006-10-23 00:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋